I'm a white guy. I'd like to get married to a white girl one day but everytime I see a white girl dating a black guy, it triggers me A LOT. I can't control it. I feel like a monster. Even if the black guy is a nice dude, I can't help but want to beat the shit out of them. How do I stop this?
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FAQ: >Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>? >What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do? >How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, fart guy, platonic cuddling guy
I'm interested in botany but I'm also useless at math. The Uni I'm starting at in the fall offers both a BS and a BA in the field, the only difference between the two seems to be that the BA version is sans Calculus and only requires introductory physics and chemistry.
Would I be fucking up if I went for the BA to dodge the math? Will it make a difference in the long run?
I am in a relationship with a girl for a couple years now. We only kind-of share similar interests.
But her pussy is perfect to me. I am not talking about sex. I mean literally her pussy. The shape, size, texture, thickness, scent, etc are all exactly to my preference. I am certain that objectively hers is the best pussy I will ever be able to enjoy.
So naturally I have a strong desire to stay in the relationship. This means that I am willing to put up with a lot of things from her that I wouldn't have if her pussy was different. I have had other girlfriends with various pussy shapes and sizes, but none of them had triggered such desire in me. I (maybe unfairly) would scrutinize their character harsher to make up for their less than phenomenal pussies.
There were times where I wanted to push my point further (in an argument or something), but I backed off when I thought about her pussy. My mind would race to the worst possible outcome of the situation, one where we break up and I lose her pussy. Seriously I receive an actual visual image in my mind about how perfect her pussy is, and I end up ceding the argument. I haven't actually ever told her that her pussy won those arguments, and I'm not sure that I ever should.
I'm wondering if this is normal behavior, and if it is fair to my girlfriend to essentially cherish her pussy more than the rest of her. Also I am concerned that our relationship would have ended already had her pussy looked even a bit different.
A company I heavily want to work for is hiring for two positions - one a manager position, and one an associate manager position (presumably reporting to whoever they hire for the top one).
I am 100% confident that I am qualified for (maybe overqualified), and an extremely strong candidate for, the associate manager role. However, I'm not sure I have the needed experience and ability for the main role... I'd kind of be faking it til I make it.
This is the kind of job where I can't just Google or ask someone for help, or fake it with enthusiasm... and high stakes, since it's one of the biggest companies on the planet.
Should I apply for the one I KNOW I'll be super qualified for, or the one I'd be stretching it with?