I don't want to be gay i feel like a freak I'm scared if someone finds i don't what to be like this i hate myself why do i have to be like is not fair
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there is even more faggotry in the uk than the us
its all in your head
ii dont get your kind though women are superior dont you find pic related attractive
>>18958645 >is not fair
No it is not.
But at least you don't live where they throw gays off of buildings.
Sorry anon, move to a place with many other gays. You will fit in better.
what about this one
he said he lives in the uk
>Dating a single mom
>Been dating for 8 months
>Met her daughter 2 months ago
>She's 9 years old
>Hit it off right away
>She likes me a lot
>Girlfriend asked me to babysit her last weekend
>Helped her with homework and spent the day playing with her
>Took her out for some ice cream
>Had a good time
>Watching cartoons with her
>Suddenly she asks me "Can I call you daddy?"
>Completely caught off guard
>Don't want to hurt her feelings
>Ask her if that's what she wants
>She says yes
>Tell her she can call me whatever she wants
>She says she wants to call me daddy
>Don't want to discourage the fatherless little girl so say okay
>Girlfriend calls me today
>She says her daughter is constantly asking for me to come over
>She says she's calling me 'daddy' now
>Tell her she asked me if she could call me that and I said yes
>Girlfriend upset by this and thinks its too soon for her to say that
>I tell her I don't disagree but I didn't want to hurt her feelings
>Tells me I should talk to her daughter and try to set the record straight
>Asking the impossible
How in flying fuck am I going to do this without shattering her soul?
Nah you're not op. You have be honoust with her. that's life.
Op, your gf asking you to talk to he daughter is a good thing, dhe trusts you. You won't dhatter her heart, you'll just teach her "life". she's nit gonna be unhappy about it for over 2 weeks. that's parenting myfriend
Why not just let the little one call you daddy, whats the big deal?
OP is playing the long game of raising the little girl to love him then fucking her brains out when shes legal, the sick fuck.
Here is how you set the record straight:
1. Talk to both of them at the same time
2. Tell the daughter that mommy & I think its too soon for her to call you that, it is a special word reserved for someone that will be around for a very long time.
3. Ask mom for her input (she needs to agree with you)
4. Tell daughter "Lets keep things simple until you get a little older, then we'll see about what you can call me"
5. Present the daughter with a little gift to reward her for her understanding and agreement, the gift comes from you and mom together.
This is the best way to mitigate this bullshit.
Did you take dance classes, music lessons, go to the gym, etc to help make yourself more attractive ?
Did you keep walking up/talking to random women ?
Did you learn from PUA's like Mark Manson, Rollo Tomassi, Roosh V ?
>>18958663 >There I very slowly recuperated my ability to be a human being,
Gratz to you anon. You should be very proud of this.
Meet her at our abstancince program. Ended up getting her pregnant 3 weeks in.
I'm glad you gave the program director an exhibit A
i don't know how to be myself
if you dont want to be yourself than you are not happy with who you are.
if you cant be yourself than you must not know who you are
>talking to shy girl for a little over a month
>confess that I like her in the most cringe way possible
>won't respond to any of my messages
How fucked am I
Boys & girls! Ladies & gents!
Please tell me some of your crush stories.
Was it mutual? How did it go? Etc.
I have a crush right now and I'd just like to hear other peoples stories to get perspective on things.
>>18957666 >>18957643 >Girls' faces when
How old were you two?
What's this type of animated 8bit art called?
>have a crush >i know she doesn't like me, because no one does it kills me from the inside knowing that. wish it was different.
I would date you, Anon. Let's play Neptunia together.
My most recent crush:
I volunteered on a field project and met a cute girl I worked with a lot, then developed a crush. Near the end of the first week, I go to her house to watch a movie with some people on the project, and stay late; it turns out the crush was mutual, then a makeout session happened. We started dating, but after a while she stopped wanting to hang out with me, and eventually we started talking less. When I tried talking to her about it, she said we were never a thing and I shouldn't be upset about it. Even after that, we'd talk from time to time and she would get flirty; I figured out that this was mostly when she needed something (help with homework, emotional support), and stopped talking to her. It's over a year since we first now, and I'm still kind of hung up on her, though; eventually we still do talk, and she'll say that she misses me and makes other hints she still might be into me. So overall, the whole experience has been confusing and frustrating.
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I'm Italian, he's Russian but was raised in Austria.
aw honey. am sorry to hear that. you doing ok???
why do you speak in english since he speak italian ?
What make him better than an italian guy ? What's the differences ?
>>18958683 >why do you speak in english since he speak italian ?
He sounds like a meme when he speaks italian.
His english is absolutely flawless, mine is decent, we manage better that way.
>What make him better than an italian guy ? What's the differences ?
Nothing in particular. I would have been happy to date an italian guy just as much, but he's absolutely outstanding in every way.
I find it cool to date someone who has a different cultural background, it was very enriching. And I do like slavic features.
the way you speak about him is very cute, it's clear that you're in love with him ^^
thanks for sharing anonette
should i put body pics on tinder if i want a boyfriend, not a hookup? the problem is that i have a big butt and big boobs and dont want to attract guys that want sex
How is you face
>>18958698 >guys that want sex
Sex is a big reason why guys are willing to be a boyfriend.
Not wanting just sex is fine, a lot of guys want more than just sex also. But if you don't want sex, you don't actually want a boyfriend.
>dont want to attract guys that want sex Then I advise you go over to grindr, and see if any gay guys want to be your boyfriend. That is literally your only option. I will be alone for my entire life.
go. will respond to stuff. people tell me I give ok advice
online dating? being upfront about your desires?
leave her the fuck alone. she doesn't want you, you make her feel awkward. she doesn't want to fuck you. stop it. meet some other girls.
has it got worse recently? might be a seasonal depression thing on top of everything. I would wait it out past christmas until it gets a bit warmer. then see how you feel. it's okay to leave because of her mental health bringing you down too, but maybe don't tell her that's why you're going or she'll feel even worse.
good luck pal. wish you the best
I've just broken up with a girl that I know I will never get over. I know everyone thinks this but she genuinely was not like any other girl I have ever been with. Our tastes and worldview matched each other perfectly, she didn't wear make up and didn't need to, she didn't follow trends and she spoke her mind. And she was tall and slim.
From the first moment I saw her I was completely infatuated, and remained that way for three years. Not once did my love for her ever wane, even through bad patches I loved her. The trouble was, deep down I knew it would never work out, because I was 8 years older than her. What we wanted wasn't going to match up, just because of that reason. If she were a few years older then maybe things would have been different. It was like a cruel tragedy. So now it's over. In a way it's a relief, because that nagging knowledge that it could never work out is gone. But along with that, so to have the little messages I would get at work, the silly voices I would do to make her laugh when she was down, getting woken up by her kissing me all over my face and whispering in my ear to stop being lazy. The thought of all those nights ahead without her beside me fills me with dread. Not being able to reach out and have her, half asleep, pull me closer to cuddle makes my stomach turn. I look back on all the little things I wish I'd done differently. I know I was too clingy sometimes, I know I got jealous, I know I read into things that weren't really there, but I'm only human. Part of me wants to believe that one day we will be back together, but the rational side of me knows that's unlikely. In the end I just want her to be happy. I will always love you.
Why would the "Dean of student conduct and retention" at my community college contact me? I don't know if this sounds stupid and I don't know that any of you can help me but I'm fucking scared... I mean student conduct? I can't even get help with that. I just keep thinking "what if some misunderstanding happened I can't explain". This college is kinda vaguely sjw and I don't got any cards to play besides aspire. What do I even do when I have absolutely no idea why this would've happened? And as I think about that I get more nervous and the more nervous I get the more it looks like I did something.
Are you a /pol/tard?
Maybe it's because of what I wrote to counselor? But she said there'd be more warning... i dont even have plans or nothing and try not to think about it.
No... im just thinking every single thing that can go wrong.
Right. I guess I answered it myself.
Not sure if intent but ty for the Rogerian help.
How do people not become drug addicts
I hate drugs and alcohol. Hate. Hate hate hate hate hate. My family has fallen to them before me, and I abhor the feeling of weakness in my mind, that loss of utter control. Not to mention how people use it as a crutch in order to do things they would be unwilling to do as themselves.
By being mentally stable enough to not need the crutch or avoiding drugs entirely
i ask myself the reverse question : how do people become drug addicts ?
i don't get why people do drugs. Obviously it seems like it feels good. Other than that, everybody knows it's dangerous and addictive as shit. Why they do it anyway, i don't understand. Also i don't do drugs cause i don't like not feeling in control.