My wife acts completely irrationally sometimes, and it drives me nuts. The other day, I put a small dirty plate on the drying rack just for a few minutes while preparing our newborn's bath (we use a plastic tub that we put in the sink). She flipped out and snapped at me, and I snapped back (which I never do).
I told her that I get up every morning at 5:30 to do chores before going to work for 11 hours a day, and that having an attitude about something so trivial is unnecessary. She claimed that my chores don't mean anything because I sometimes make mistakes while doing them and because I take a one hour free time break (my only free time each day) before work instead of helping with the baby. I help with the baby all the time and just want one hour to myself each day. She doesn't go to work and gets to stay home because she's on maternity leave. I completely understand that doesn't mean she has a relaxing life and that she is very busy, too, but at least she can stay home.
Not really sure what to do. When she gets like this, I just stop talking to her for days at a time because talking never solves anything. She usually ends up crying and asking me to forgive her, but it has happened so many times now that I'm fed up. I'm tempted to tell her that I don't see her as a friend anymore because that's how I really feel. If she treated a normal friend this way, they would definitely just abandon her at this point. She doesn't realize that the only reason I put up with it is for the sake of our marriage and the sake of our child.
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I hear people saying the value of the BA has greatly depreciated. I hear random success stories of carpenters and electricians making 100k+ annual. I hear success stories of military engineers and pilots getting their whole life set up for them practically for free. I don't know who to listen to. Which path is the quickest and lowest risk to success and job security? I just don't want to wind up with regret later on in my career/education. Any experience with this /adv/?
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>arranged to meet up with gf Saturday a week in advance >tells me the other day her friend is having a birthday meal the same night but she isn't going >tell her my friends invited me out Saturday night too, but I'm not going because they didn't give me enough notice (and also because it would be rude to bail on her) >starts saying oh you can out if you want to I don't want to feel like I'm stopping you >suddenly tells me later that day she IS going to the birthday meal so we will have to meet up later >little bit annoyed but let it slide and say yeah cool we can just meet up later then >gets a bit worried and says oh no are you angry with me, but say nah it's cool >then tell me she'll be late arriving to the meal because of work, so I say well if it makes things easier we can just meet up another night >OH SO NOW YOU'RE SAYING YOU DON'T WANT TO MEET UP, FINE WE WON'T MEET UP THEN, THAT'S BASICALLY WHAT YOU'RE SAYING >makes me feel like I'm in the wrong and making me feel like a dickhead, bearing in mind she said the exact same thing previously by saying I could go out with my friends instead of us meeting up
Not a very interesting argument but this really pissed me off and fed up of being made out I'm the bad guy when I'm trying to show I'm being reasonable. Is it futile trying to argue with logic with her? Should I just leave this?
Hey /adv/, this story is cut down a lot but basically, when I was 17, my mother kicked me out of her house and I ended up moving in my girlfriend and her family, as soon as I turned 18, it got kind of awkward but it was fine. I had been talking to other girls (only messaging on facebook, I had no sexual intent, me and my girlfriend weren't that conversational) but I only did that for a day or so, afterwards we agreed to never do it again and there you go, we're done with that scenario, happy life, whatever.
Last weekend was our two year anniversary, we were chilling and I told her to talk to me (as she was on her phone the entire day talking to some guy) and she broke up with me due to that, ever since then she's been saying "I love you" to numerous guys and the like and it crushes me inside because you need to realize that we live in the same house. I can't get out, incredibly hard to reestablish connections with my family, my real father lives in Poland so I can't move to another country lol. What do I do in this situation and how do I make sure this doesn't affect me? Very hard to get over a girl talking to other guys in the room next to me.
im trying to make a facebook group to keep track of a local well known and active pedophile.
-i ask for and need an old facebook account to set this up.
if u have an old account can i please have it. i need this for two reasons. 1 i cant use my account this. the dude is way to well known for that. 2 i cant make a new account. as the account made date will raise flags and keep his supporters away.
plz help me help my community. i thought the folks here would be perfect to ask this request.
we will email or we can fb. im real from the west coast usa. i can prove everything im saying.