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FAQ: >What do girls/guys think about <any trait, such as: looks, physical or personality traits, virginity, penis traits, or lack of dating experience>? >Do <most/any> <girls/guys> like <an insecurity over the above>?
There is no one answer. Preferences differ and worrying about some complex only ever makes things worse. In fact, worries like complexes are very often the real problem.
>I'm shy and afraid of <people/rejection>.
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, bit by bit, step by step. You can't rely on some "magic moment" (or activity) to instantly change you.
>I like someone. What do I do? >How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out. "Signs" of attraction are basically meaningless.
>Where do I meet people for <dating/friendship>?
Anywhere outside. Or online. Above all, leave your comfort zone.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me.
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, froyo, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, gallery, park, <activity in your city>.
I fucking slept with my married friend. Her marriage is unhappy and I know that but it doesn't excuse either of us. I always had an idea that she was into me and instead of being smart about it I fucking gave in.
How the fuck do I live with myself now?
I'm not going to tell her husband or anything, or anyone else for that matter. The morning after (this morning) I thought that we'd never speak of it again but instead she sent a fucking nude. I haven't replied and I don't know what to do fuck I'm a piece of shit.
My bf and I want to get a room to fuck in but all the days I want to reserve say that the room will be ready at 3pm. I've never booked a room, having sex in either of our places is a risk, is there a way to get an earlier check-in time or is it like this everywhere else?
Okay guys this is either very dumb and extremely stupid or very common a very not-talked-about. Anyways, like every other dude, I like to jerk my Peterson once in a while, and I read somewhere that some tribe uses a simple physical birth control: they stick a lil bone through the urethra, so the jizz cannot come shooting out. Simple yet brilliant. As the fat lazy fucking virgin I am, I don't need protection, however I do like to have a wank every now and then, and I like to do it conveniently. So I figured if I just firmly push down on the urethra at the base of the penis, the cum would just stay inside - no mess, no cleanup, no inconvenience. The only tiny downside is that some of it still wants to leak out, so it leaves a small stain on your underpants afterwards. However, this mess is still significantly less than the one the original method generates. And you can easily deal with the issue in the bathroom with some toilet paper, no big deal. Now about two years ago I broke my ankle (slipped and fell), and I had to sit on my ass (weird crack didn't let me walk around), so of course I started to piss in bottles. After a while I facied a wank, and so I did my usual lil' ceremony, with the base-grabbing and all that. Later that day I noticed something weird. The piss bottle was hazy. That's when I realized the cum was going up to the bladder all this time! So obvs I stopped with the shenanigans while I was using the ominous bottles, but after the recovery, I resumed the old habit - just like the lazy fuck I am. Now it occurred to me a few days back that the positive effect of jerking is that it releases the cum. Now if the cum remains inside, does it make it dangerous? Also, I'm pretty sure sperm is not supposed to be in those places, especially in the bladder, will it not cause some infection? I do this every day but only today did it occur to me that it might be dangerous. Any advice is appreciated.
tldr: I hold my cum back when I wank, is that bad? Pic related.
I've been deeply in love with this girl for many months but I haven't seen her in a few months until today. She walked past me and whispered "hi" and then walked away. I tried talking to her but she pretended that she couldn't hear me and she continued to walk away.
I have a younger sister. She's 17 years old and from what i've seen, she's a very social person when it comes to going to high school and such. Though, when she's alone, she's a completely different person.
At the age of 15, i've caught her watching gruesome videos online, such as ISIS beheadings, people getting their brains blown out and such (all through the deep web)
A few days ago, I checked out her laptop and found her browser history to be full of live leak videos of murders/suicides caught on tape. I feel that she may have a liking to blood and gruesome videos as she's been watching them a lot. I'm not sure what it means.
Let me give y'all some background information.
>>Doesn't have an interest in relationships whatsoever >>Had an issue with a neighbors dog barking, threatened to shoot it >>Friends complain that she completely lacks empathy >>doesn't express sadness or sympathy >>Takes an interest in serial killers. Has been watching documentaries growing up
so, /adv/ is there something psychologically wrong with my sister?
So I'm 23 in the military, and got to my new unit a few months ago. I met this girl whos 29 on a dating site and we went on a date after maybe 2 weeks of texting/messaging. It went fine, we didnt kiss or anything, just a hug goodbye. I had to go to the field for 3 weeks immediately after that, and we texted each other the entire time whenever I could. Once I got back we hung out a few days later at her place late at night. We were making out and things were getting heavy, and she stopped me and told me she really liked me, and wanted to be my girlfriend, and asked how I felt. I told her I liked her too, and so from then on we started dating.
>adopt resue dog >get a dachshund because very cute >shes blind and will often bump into walls and get brain damage >pumping out $500 a month to medicate her >already struggling to support myself >just lost my job >if i dont find a job in time, i cant support her or myself and we'll live in the streets >cant declare bankruptcy on student loans >if i give her away, i'll miss her forever and live in sorrow because i couldn't be there for her