I miss my girlfriend badly. I cannot think of anything else for long and I want to be with her right now more than anything else. I just feel so lonely and bored without her, I crave the feeling of having her in my arms desperately. How thr fuck do I get rid of this feeling so I can function properly?
>Be me. >I go over to a wal-mart blood pressure machine and just fuck around with it. >Checking how healthy the machine thinks I am. >Go to my sleep test or whatever it was called. >It asks how I sleep. >I answer truthfully. >Gives me results. >Says I have Insomnia. >I knew I had sleep problems but I didn't think it was that bad. >Laugh it off. >Go home to eat dinner. >Go to bed around 8 pm. >Wake up around 12:50 am. >Figure I can go back to sleep. >It's around 5:00 am now, and I still haven't went back to sleep.
Any advice to help insomniacs get to sleep?
>Be me, be 20 >Spent the last 4 years with crippling panic disorder >See a counselor for to help with grief when grandpa dies >Start to work through anxiety. Exposure therapy and all >Meet a girl with social anxiety >Both virgins, so scared of people to date >Start seeing her for a the weeks, both attractive people interested in similar things (anime, YouTube, dank memes, etc) >Get laid >Start to improve life, go out more >Continue to see girl >Be 21 >Move in with a friend after he buys a place to live in a nicer area >Buy a nice car since I have good credit from always bring anxious about money >Still seeing girl, things get harder since she is bad at communion >Be 22 >Steal friends idea about buying a house since renting sucks, buy a duplex with another friend 50/50 >Move in with girl >Make plans about buying more real estate while she continues to go to school >Fight often since communication still sucks >She starts adulting less and less >Help her with bills since she is going to school and working less >She makes me feel like a monster when I ask her about paying bills >Start to be afraid of coming home since she always is mad about something >Tell her we have to move to a smaller bedroom and rent the master out since I've run out of money >Invite friends over to look at bedroom since they're looking for a place >Girl throws a tantrum, knocks things over, screaming, Tris me to be sure to tell friends they'll be looking at her old room, says I never cared about her and laughs in my face when I tell her she's is important to me >Tell friends that coming over isn't a good idea, they understandably pass on moving in >Couch surf for a few days >Tell girl I don't want to be in relationship anymore, since this isn't the first time she has hurt me like this and there is no change in sight >Talk to her family about where she can stay >Organize her 21st birthday whole couch surfing and have roommate take credit >Girl moves out
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This guy wants me to let him fuck me in his office, and he says that he hates dating (which I think is a hint that he's not interested in anything romantic?)
Anyway I've never had a guy want me romantically, only sexually. I promised myself that I would never have casual sex again because of how worthless it makes me feel (plus I don't even enjoy it, I only used to do it for validation)
Should I have sex with this guy, seeing as I haven't had sex in two years? But I promised myself that I would only have sex with someone who had feelings for me, even if it meant not having sex for the rest of my life
What do you think I should do? I'm 25, for those who are going to ask for my age.
General thread for people who need it/want to help Anon's through it. And I need help getting over it. >Be me, 26, alright job >finally date best friend. Love her to death. >Was a loser too long, autism'd out. Eventually she gets turned off and leaves.
Its been a few months. Stopped trying to drink myself to death awhile ago, both her and new bf (a close friend) miss me and want to hang out. Keep sperging out because I miss her, can't let go of her and I feel guilty for causing all this awkward bulllshit/breakup to begin with.