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Well /adv/ looks like this is the end of the road for me.
Every girl I've hit on for the past half year since breaking up with my ex has rejected me, no one has answered me on okcupid or any other dating site, 0 fucking matches on tinder. I'm dumbfounded at this point. Is it simply time to accept reality and give up?
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I fucked up.

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Guys, I think I fucked up.

Theres this really great guy that I started talking a lot with around September. We went from casual conversations to telling eachother about our depressions and eventually became best friends.

But, that wasn't enough for me. I wanted more.

Around Christmas time, I got the idea of a relationship rolling. We discussed it for some time, then he told me that he had an irl fwb he kinda had feelings for. We talked and talked some more, and he eventually said, "Well, you're closer to me than her." And he mentioned having to call her and tell her it was over. Then, I asked if we were a thing, then. He said "I guess."

I was ecstatic. Just, so, so happy.

Then, two days later, he told me he wanted to think about it. Alrighty, I said, take your time.

Then, one night, he told me that he didn't wanna do it; LDRs don't have the physical intimacy he felt he needs.

I was bawling like a kid. I've been cheated on, used, lied to, manipulated so much in the past, and I thought I finally found something that would work.

However, he still considered us best friends, and wanted to continue being best friends.

A week or so later, I confessed that I still had feelings for him. He suggested that we cut contact until I moved on, as its not healthy to hold feelings like that.

About another week later, I told him that I had gotten over those feelings. We started talking again and such.

In reality, I actually hadn't. I just couldn't go without talking to him.

Today, I know I still have feelings for him. We're still best friends, but part of me just wants to make a relationship between us work no matter the difficulties.

He, on the other hand, has moved on. He tells me about how he hopefully may get another fwb and such.

Yeah, I really fucked up. Like, shit, I want him to take for virginity for fucks sake.

Pic unrelated; its my dog.
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My wife has been feeling insecure about her appearance lately.

She said she wants to talk tonight and I know it about this.

The thing is, she is very obese. Pic related. That's pretty close to her physique.

Her face symmetry, hair, and skin are all 8/10 and she puts a lot of effort into those things.

But she seems oblivious to the effect her weight has on how others perceive her. I've spoken frankly about feeling less attractive because of the weight and of course I get called shallow.

Not sure how to deal with her denial. I have already tried every reasonable piece of advice about dealing with a fat spouse.

FWIW I'm the opposite, I'm really fit but my face and hair are a 3 or 4.
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A Scam Unearthed: What do I do?

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I recently acquired information that there is a rather large "charity" (National Scale) being run entirely as a scam. I'm unsure of how to proceed, or even what to do. I was certain that if I could find advice anywhere, it would be on 4chan. Any ideas?
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My girlfriend always want to spend time together

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She's always getting mad at me over tiny things and get's exasperated with me easily. Because of that, I don't want to be around her that much. I feel relaxed and comfortable when I'm in the office playing Pokemon, talking to friends, or going on 4chan. Lately this has been making her more and more needy of me, and it's getting on my nerves fast.

What's worse is I've tried breaking up with her because she's treated me like crap in the past 6 months, and she just kept crying and begging me to stay.

So in short, what the fuck should I do? She's barely gotten better at being nicer to me (even though she says she's trying really hard to be better for me), and I just want to be left the fuck alone.
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No, those aren't their ages... fucking pervs. Should I go for a girl who's a 10/10 who has a significantly higher chance of giving me a trash relationship, or should I go for a girl who's 7.5/10 but I would feel very comfortable with knowing that she's not looking to bang other guys 24/7.
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I am a recent college graduate (B.Sc in Mathematics) and have no clue how to find a job/career.

People I've talked to said they found their job through connections/networking - however, I have no connections (I know 3 people on LinkedIn) since our mathematics program was small, and no one within the program aside from myself planned on going into the industry.

I wish that universities forced students to take courses in job searching or career building because I have no clue. I have marketable skills (my minor was in Computer Science so I can do almost any job involving analysis or programming) but no idea how to market them.

Any advice?
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As a millennial, should I just kill myself? My boomer parents and their generation anally fucked every generation that followed. I can't get a job, I can't pay off my debt, I'm stuck with a useless degree because "it doesn't matter what degree you get, anyone will hire you!".

This is fucked up and I don't see any hope for the future. How do I get the balls to an hero?
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Can I tell someone what I definitely don't want for christmas or is that inappropriate?

Christmas is coming up, and I have kind of an odd gift situation.

I've been seeing someone for 7 months now and this'll probably be the first gift he ever gives me. I have reason to believe he might get me a watch, but if he did I would be massively upset about it (explanation upon request). Quite a while ago I explained my distaste for it, but there's a good chance he doesn't remember, or it went over his head.
What is the appropriate way to handle this????
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I guess I'm not a virgin anymore?

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>tl;dr: Virgin(?), used to have a big sex drive, got called over for a booty call and couldn't keep it up.

So I think technically I had sex for the first time last night. I'm a 21 year old awkward but likeable guy.

So this girl from last night is a friend of a friend. I met her last year, and I thought she was pretty attractive. Talked to her a bit at this party, partially hit it off but not enough to pursue her. A week ago we went out for coffee after matching on tinder, and then...

Last night. I was drinking with my roommates and she texted me around 3am asking me to come over. I was nervous since it was heavily implied it was a booty call, but I was sobering up so I didn't think it'd be a problem. Got there around 4am and right away she leads me into her bedroom. We talk for a couple minutes and then she says "I was thinking we'd just hook up, is that okay?" Lights off (might be the problem, I'm a visual guy). She gets on top of me, starts making out, grinding on me half naked.


No erection, not even really turned on mentally. No idea why. She's hot, easily 8/10, and I USED to have a pretty high sex drive imo. I used to jerk off like 1-2 times daily (lately I guess it's been like once a day but its almost a chore... maybe I've been kind of depressed and stressed with school lately?), this should be everything I wanted. But I just couldn't get into it.

We tried a few different things. She went down on me and I got hard, but I lost it the second we put the condom on. I got her to stand up and let me stare at her and jack off which worked for a bit but I lost it again when she got on me. She went down on me one more time and I got hard again, and we managed to get it in for a couple minutes. She seemed to enjoy it, she was really wet, we got a couple minutes of awkward fucking in, but I really didn't enjoy it at all for some reason. Ended up going soft, pulling out and then just giving up, talking and falling asleep.

I don't even know what to think.