How do you deal with rejection? The way I've dealt with it is I don't talk to my parents. If it wasn't for them I wouldn't be in this world constantly suffering, therefore they don't deserve any love whatsoever from me.
Should I ruin this girls marriage or just leave it be?
Greentext time >be me, one year ago >in a relationship, things have been going downhill for a couple years now >meet this girl, also in a relationship >100% chemistry, sparks flying everywhere >have an affair half a year later for about half a year >we decide to stick with our partners, mainly me because I have a life going >stay friends, have good times together >she gets closer to her bf again >leaves me hanging every possible situation >decide to make a short trip together with a grp >insomnia is killing me because I have to share a room with a stranger, she has a spare bed in her room >decides to leave me hanging >two days later, talk about what to do that evening >"We wont do THAT thing this evening" >Does THAT thing that evening, leaving me out, not even telling me whats going on >this has happened couple times b4 and I always thought I wasnt beta but well... >but since life is nice it gave me a chance for redemption. Ive never done anything comparable b4
>write anonymous letter to her bf telling him about the affair >he already suspected it all the time and tried cockblocking me 24/7 by forbidding her to see me when hes at home >get them both to split up just to fuck her over and make her feel the despair I suffered. >she knows about my severe depression, my major lack of friends and how much of a problem it is for me and practically my biggest weakness atm >still decides to treat me like shit and tells over and over again that it wasnt intentional and that shes sorry
I want to meet up with an online friend in the near future for the purpose of spending time together and getting fucked. We've known each other for a while and are both virgins, and I want to relieve him of that. I'm very attracted to him.
However, we live on opposite sides of the US. He's been gracious enough to allow me to stay at his apartment for free for the time I'm there, meaning is just have to pay for the ticket. However, I come from a conservative background and am a bit of a shut in when not at college, only leaving for groceries. I'm not sure how to explain my absence to my parents without arousing suspicion. Do you have any advice?
>be me >confess to girl around September; get rejected >confess because i couldn't stand lying to her about my feelings; expected it anyway so heylolitsfine.jpg >after a week, she cuts me off >heylolitsfinegirlsdothat.png >havent talked for months now, but hey it could be worse >hear from a friend of mine that she has been going around telling a story about me forcing her into a relationship that time >heymaybeitswhatshethoughtitwas.iso >know for a fact that it's not, since another friend of mine asked her if i had demanded anything from her like a relationship in any way. she said no >back to the present >pic related
So I'm going to be giving a speech in about a month and a half, with the general gist of it being about the past, present, and future. Is it a good idea to walk as I give the speech? I was planning on moving to stage right when talking about the past, center stage for the present, and finally, stage left for the future.
Is this too much movement for a speech? I'm just a little concerned that the movement may be a little distracting.
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Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
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>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
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>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
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>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
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Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
How do I get over my fear of women betraying me? I'm afraid of pic related. One of my best friend overdosed and stabbed himself when he was cheated on. He luckily was found and brought to a hospital in time. I've seen this kind of shit happen. I have a GF, I think I can trust her, I KNOW she can trust me, but I'm terrified.