I'm 18, halfway to 19. >inb4 "fuck off underage b8"
I lurked this site from age 13-15 and have been posting here since age 15. At least I'm honest about it, that's more than other underage fags can say.
I'm wrapping up my senior year of high school and preparing to enter the adult world. Trouble is, I have literally zero idea what I'm going to do after high school. I have no tertiary education lined up and can barely hold down a single, shitty minimum wage job. I know for a fact I will end up a NEET.
But I really cannot stomach the idea of living as a NEET. I just can't. So I created my own plan for after college. I plan to ditch this shitty town I've spent years in and run. I want to start a new life far fucking away from here.
I'm just going to gather up my belongings, take what pitiful amount of money I have (in cash), create an alias for myself, and run.
I'm planning to illegally immigrate to another English speaking country (US fag here) since my foreign language skills are absolute shit.
The only advice I really need here is from Éire fags, Brit fags, Aus fags, or experts on immigration on how to go about smuggling myself into another country and then some insight on what it is like in your/those nations. Sorry for having to plague your countries with another immigrant by the way, but I feel like this is something I have to do.
General life advice would help too on how to work my way up from an illegal vagrant to at least a migrant worker of some kind, maybe more. I'm not above panhandling and/or begging for food, shelter, etc. There is a distinction between that and being a NEET.
I have some skills/talents that could be of use as well. I'm fairly talented in music, an exceptional reader and writer (hoping to publish my work before I skip town), and I enjoy studying/learning about history.
Thanks for taking the time to read guys. Now help an anon out with some advice.
Posted this on /b/, realized it made more sense to post here
So, greentext time, any comments, negative or positive, are welcome: >be me >25 year old faggot in medschool >fat, was kinda fit about 2 years ago >study 180 miles away from hometown >have a chill life, dad doesn't want you to worry about money, so he sends a lot each month >hence, I have the ability to take women as much as I want out for drinks, dinner, whatever >had some succes over the last 3 years of studying here >some pussy here, some pussy there >realized shit was getting kinda out of hand, with the drugs, alcohol and women >had to get my shit together, I'm not 18 anymore >started "serious dating" >had almost no success whatsoever in finding a woman for the last 2 years of my life that's worth a shit >fast forward to about a year ago >make friends with a dude in my class, he's pretty chill >dude has gorgeous gf, who I happened to have met in my second semester at school >we hit it off, they invite me to parties, I invite them over to my apartment to chill and have some drinks with friends >then, about 4 months ago, they broke up >the girl, let's call her April, somehow grew attached to me and finds comfort in talking with me about her problems >not the first girl, apparently I'm a good listener, and I like to help however I can >I really liked them as a couple, so did my best for her to make the best choice possible >In the end, she opted to go the "I should be single some time" card, and stopped having contact with the dude >about a month a half ago she starts visiting me about 3 times a week (which is, like, all our free time, considering medschool) >we shoot the shit, talk about our days, and generally have a great time >time passes quickly when we're together
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So hello /adv/
Little info about myself >be me >have alcohol and drug problems >go to a decent university >meet girl with who I fall in love with >I have always had a hard time attaching myself to people and I have never cared for anyone but her >we hang around but nothing intimate >a few weeks pass >we still cool at the surface of things >in reality I have actually been losing my love for her and I don't know why
Basically my greatest concern is that I will end up losing all my feelings and I don't want that since I have never been able to express them before. I'm 21, I've been into relationships (though it was all for sex) before but I am scared that this is what the future is going to be for me.please help idk