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>21 years old
>Feel like I'm too old to make any real friends
>Thinking about committing suicide to be free of work and misery
>Severed from my race (Puerto Rican DNA), so I've never had real friends before
I'm thinking to shoot myself soon.
I don't love my family, and my family doesn't love me even though we try to love one another.
I'm tired of living on this earth.
I'm tired of waking up to hell and going home to nothing and then waking up and going back to hell.
I don't want to do it anymore.
If you read your posts again and see nothing wrong with them then God help you.
>>19390897 >Anon's Fantasy: Chad Edition >It's alright to have no friends and be totally alone when you're a member of a species that is extremely sociable
That makes no real sense.
u can get lots of vyoos
Never said it was "alright", but a certain percentage of our society is consigned to live that way, and OP's lot in life included him in there.
If OP can't or doesn't want to change to fix his issues, and he views this as his only salvation, then he can go right ahead.
you are wrong
For some time now I suspected I suffer from Social Phobia and I'm currently in therapy for that, the psychologist told me she will give me some "task" I must complete in order to overcome my phobia, the first one is: talking to my crush and ask her out.
That task is like throwing someone who can't swim into the sea, how am I suppose to overcome my phobia with the very thing I'm afraid to do? I thought the therapy would be slow-paced but man...
If your homework is too much genuinely you're supposed to tell your therapist that. If you can't handle a task, just say so. Your therapist (if she's halfway decent) will make a smaller task for you.
I never ask for this.
But jokes aside, I really regret not doing some things in the past, but I feel defeated even before doing some activity that I don't try anything new, and I can't stand it anymore
I sure hope it gets easier after that
Also very much this anon. It's the same as getting over a fear of snakes. She might not even realistically expect you to be able to ask her out, but she wants you to try. In trying, you're in proximity to your stressor. Proximity promotes familiarity till by merit of being familiar, your stressor is less stressful.
You should ask her out though. Think of this more as an experiment rather than a "social interaction" if that makes you less anxious about it. Just remember, every girl you never ask out has already said no, but it takes one yes to land a forever relationship.
But it's strange, I sorta talk with other girls that I might find pretty, but with her is... I feel completely irrational, but yeah I have to face my fear
I feel like I lost my mind two years ago, and when I drink any alcohol the vague feeling multiplies, even if it's just two beers. Help.
>>19391416 > I guess you have to look at the trauma you endured head on.
What do you mean?
Whatever made you lose your mind. If it just happened then I don't know if there's much you can do, but if it was caused by an event then it would be worth revisiting.
Are you on other medication besides the beers you're prescribing?
Aside from that, do you have a history of concussion or other general head trauma?
>t. not a doctor
Weird, this song came on, "You Already Know". If you listen to music that is relatable and fits the tone, there's a lot of syncronicities.
This song came on, "You Already Know". If you listen to music that is relatable and fits the tone, there's a lot of syncronicities.
Yeah, an anticonvulsant. That could be it. I've been pressured to be on a lot of stuff, so I stopped paying attention.
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Is romance basically impossible in this current day and age? Everybody has such high standards and won't settle for anything less since they can just meet twenty different persons at the touch of a button.
Romance has always been folly, romance is a fleeing feeling while true love in it's purest is shown by action. It has always been impossible for it has always failed, the rise of romance in the 20th century was one of the biggest reason for the awful divorce rate.
>>19390295 >There's also men who think women are inherently inferior
I believe this and fuck on the regular, I only started being successful with women when I started treating them like children. Anybody who takes 99.9% of women seriously is a fool. For men it's like 80%
Your view on the world is grossly 8nnaccurate, there is a person out there for everyone, you just have to make the effort of finding them.
I get a little riled when I see people making fun of "nice guys" but reading his thread I can totally see their point. The amount of entitlement you guys have is ridiculous. Yet if some ugly fat chick came at you with similar views you'd laugh in her face. The only "fucked up unfair world" is in your head.
Is it possible to have a relationship completely free of fighting? Like, both parties get along perfectly for the entire duration they're together.
Yes, marry a corpse.
You're going to disagree at one point,
Something is going to annoy you at one point. If you don't fight the relationship would be stagnant.
I'm in a relationship that's been about a year long and we haven't fought even once. I feel dead inside though because of it.
Shit trips me out. I'm just not an arguer. I don't find them pleasant to even indulge in because it ends up being the same drama over and over (fight, make up, fight, make up) and I'm really aware it's basically like playing a game. Maybe one day I'll find a mindful space cadet gf
I've had one. It was so fucking comfy while it lasted. I can't explain.
>2012 (22, M)
>would have to delete the app every couple of weeks because of the amount of matches making the app run slow/losing track of where I was with matches
>app doesn’t seem to be as busy as it was, still decent amount of matches
>barely any matches, and the women I to match with are very far from what I’m used to seeing
Do you think it could be my age? I’m only 27 which doesn’t feel old at all. besides, I always thought the younger girls went for older guys, is this just a thing young guys tell themselves when they can’t get girls? Or am I in a weird limbo between young and old, where I’m not young enough to feel safe, but not old enough to feel “mature“?
>>19389953 >Or am I in a weird limbo between young and old, where I’m not young enough to feel safe, but not old enough to feel “mature“?
No you're in a weird limbo where you're too old to be using it as a hookup app like young people do and too young to be using it as a proper dating app like older people do.
Tinder has just gone to shit over the years. I use to at least get matches in the past now it's impossible. Got to look elsewhere OP.
but what is elsewhere?
Couple of things.
In 2012 Tinder was actually cool and people were genuinely interested in excited about using it to hook up.
The biggest dating/fooling around demographic is between 18 and 25. Lots of singles, people are in college and bored, and so on.
You'll see activity past 25 but if you don't live in a big city it's gonna be a noticeable drop. People get married, start working, are in long term relationships. The pickings get slim. And the ones left are rarely a treat.
My loneliness in my boring ass life is killing me ever since I graduated. I’ve mostly hanged on here on 4chan chatting about movies, anime, and politics. Now I want to shed my anon self and start making friends online. Problem is I don’t know where else to go besides fucking Reddit (cancer) Twitter (SJW cesspool) and Facebook (Don’t use). Where else can I go that has a good community where I can make friends?
I have no experience with this. But I see a lot of 4channers making discord servers for this specific reason. You could try that.
Preddy good I hear tons of qt's and bro-tier dudes
I’ll see if /tv/ has got one.
>be me, new to 4chan
>site is blocked by my school which is normal
>get home and my own internet provider has blocked 4chan too
>I tell my mom our provider is blocking sites but she doesn’t believe me
>I’m using my limited phone cellular data to post this
>>19390586 >minecraft still has more monthly users than fortnite's total players >pic related
as for you OP, sorry, go play minecraft. Fortnite is a bit too mature for a growing child like you.
i live in India and my ISP (Jio) provides 2 GB of 4G internet every day with unlimited talk time for a month. it costs at most 5$. search VOLTE if you you do not believe me.
you say that our country is shit but we enjoy cheaper internet.
poo in loo XD
Use a VPN, or do as another anon said and change DNS server. I can talk you through how to do this if you like, reply with your OS.
>>19390297 >>site is blocked by my school which is normal
Something is TERRIBLY wrong with you if you're trying to access 4chan from your school's wifi
>>19390297 >trying to access this shitty cite >literal middle schooler
Don't you know they're tracking you, even right now?
Dumb kid, go play PUBG or Madden or League or whatever you fags play.
How do I stop stressing out about sleep?
I started a new job where I have to get up at 4am to get to work on time and I'm getting super stressed out about the amount of sleep I need.
I don't want to go to bed at 9pm every night. I still want a social life. I'm starting to feel like I have no life now and it's making me go crazy
I've had huge success with Dexedrine,
everyone is different but I can balance both with this tool. I'll just wake up to my alarm with them by the side of my bed, take one and sit in bed until I'm completely lucid. Your body is always gonna catch up on the sleep too, so you'll have full days of sleep sometimes but I get to choose when that is. Pros - increased confidence, anxiety can be managed, easily can engage in converstation premature ejaculation is gone physical preformance, mental performance, my recollection on dexedrine is stupid enhanced Cons- bad breath, you have to brush your teeth very well. comedown can be rough if you stop taking them, I usually sleep for this. I can sometimes be very cruel to people, empathy is kind of weaker. sweating in summer can be annoying. Good-Luck~
I need advice focusing on the good side of things.
I get stressed at a office job that I'm sure many people could at the very least bear because the pay is pretty good (46k) and I'm on my way to a good position (60-70k) if I don't fuck it up for my self.
People are happier with way less so why am I such a miserable piece of shit? Ive been depressed ever since I've moved to this wonderful city and state. Why the fuck can't I be happy?
It might be because I moved away from my friends. But Idk.
I've made friends with co workers but I need people out side of this god forsaken company.
I think you answered your own question, bud. You need people outside of your company. Personal lives and work lives can mix, but the two should still be very distinct. Go out! Go get a couple of drinks at a bar. Look up interesting events in your area. Maybe there's a concert from a group you like. It's easy to meet people that way. As to why you can't be happy, I'm gonna need a bit more from you. People are usually depressed from a lack of fulfillment. You think that you are not doing what you enjoy or, at the very least, something meaningful. Money isn't everything in this world. Do you have a girlfriend? Maybe that should be your next pursuit. Have no hobbies? Take a couple of classes. Try to keep in touch with your old friends. It's a lot of work, but you'll thank yourself later. If you want me to jump into why you can't be happy more, just post some more stuff about your life. I'm here to help.
>>19391251 >You think that you are not doing what you enjoy or, at the very least, something meaningful.
100% This I went to school for engineering thinking it would be a hands on job (I'm retarded) graduated and now I'm working an office job as a manager for a UPS warehouse.
>do you have a girlfriend?
Never had one. Only had sex. I go limp half way through. Happend with 3 separate girls.
>try to keep in touch with your old friends.
Thanks D. I really to appreciate you responding to me. Ive been like this for a while and haven't had anyone to talk to.
Do you, yourself, feel sexually frustrated? Many people I personally know don't need sex in their lives, they just don't have the urge. Just curious. But I'm glad I could be here for you. I don't want you to take my advice as to quit your job and go on some adventure. I want you to look at your job from a new light. I don't want you to enjoy it, but I want you to find incentive to wake up every day and go to work. The spiral of depression, loathing, and whatnot is terrible. Find what brings you joy. I don't mean one time ecstasy, I mean true happiness. What really brings you into your element? Exploit the hell out of that. This, I believe, is the key to fulfillment. Did you ever have any dreams for hands-on engineering? Pursue that in your free time. Nothing is stopping you, dude.
>>19391293 >Do you, yourself, feel sexually frustrated? Many people I personally know don't need sex in their lives, they just don't have the urge. Just curious.
Not in the conventional sense. I honestly think I've watched too much porn and fap to much because I've never felt someone want me. I'm using it as a substitute for real physical connection because honestly I feel like I've never had anyone reciprocate feelings. Just lust.
This has also left me with a pretty fucked view of relationships in general. When I see a couple I think "well guess he passed the sex test." It's honestly left me scared of sex. I constantly try to snap my self out of it.
>Did you ever have any dreams for hands-on engineering?
Yeah. I wanted to be the go to guy who knew everything about some device and be able to run, fix, and fabricate the parts as needed. Still think I want to be that. But I also have no idea what I'm doing so I just keep on working here. It pays the rent.
Thanks again D.