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>Go on dating site to see if I can get a gf
>Stumble upon a foreigner that's using the site to just meet people to improve English (literally just that, we've been seeing each other for a week and haven't even held hands)
>I start to really fall hard for this chick, yet she's only on a tourist visa for 5 months, furthermore she's absolutely just looking to hangout with people to improve her English.
>get scared of potential future heartbreak and call it off
Is it possible to change a person's trajectory on love? She's not looking for anything, yet I am...How do I get her to fall in love with me bros?
There might have been a chance when her and I kept up hanging out for the next 5 months, but I didn't want to risk her still viewing me as a friend while I fall deeper & deeper in love
Pic related. Thing is, her and I get along so wildly well together, and I know that she won't meet another guy like me...We had instant best friend chemistry since the minute we met.
She's a stupid slut. Pass on that one, anon.
>"haha" >"haha" >"haha"
Fucking just kill me.
Holy shit you're fucking pathetic OP.
The "i can't just be friends i have to be in a relationship with u or nothing!!!" gambit. Trying to emotionally blackmail someone that obviously isn't interested, cringey dude. Way to give up your "best friend chemistry" because you're selfish and can't handle your emotions.
Jesus Christ, they were right. It matters what you say and how you epxress yourself more than how many words and stolen ideas from a vocabulary you can shove in one paragraph.
Falling in love is selfish?
Why would I hurt myself by continuing talking to her? For what purpose?
nah dude, he's not shitting on you for cutting contact, that was the right choice. He's shitting on you for telling her that all that bullshit. You're not gonna "convince" her to fall for you, and being a bitch about it like that isn't exactly gonna make any girl swoon. You would have been better off just dialing things back to a level you could handle without going full retard.
I'm a virgin, but I'm fairly confident about who my first will be. Being a virgin I'll probably be awful when it does happen, but I'd obviously like to lesden that as much as possible since I want to absolutely fuck the shit out of this girl when I get the opportunity.
Any tips to accomplish this? I'm open to any suggestions. If you want more info just ask I guess
Yeah, I'm definitely wearing condom. Better safe than sorry, and lasting longer is a nice bonus even if it doesn't feel as good
Any general tips for foreplay, or does it just depend on her and what gets her going?
>>18152633 >caring what the fuck women think
must be cool to be 18 you fucking pleb
i bet you're a nigger too.
fuck the lot of you kike fucks pushing degeneracy like this. settle down with a nice waifu and have 3 white babies and end of fucking story. life isn't about fucking. it's about building something. fucking is not the focus of life. establishing a legacy is the purpose and you do that by getting close to god through christ.
fucking niggers, every one of you.
MY penis is 6 inches with 5.75 of girth, and I can tell you now, that there is no such thing as the female orgasm. I'm a big guy. And it's not as if I just rush into sex with no plan - I take my time and have rhythm and it works well, but there is no explosion of ecstasy that isn't 100% faked by women into duping you into cumming - that's all they want from sex - impregnation. Bear this in mind. Their goal 100% is to get your cum and nothing more. All the showmanship in their lives is for this one simple thing. Remember it, if you don't want to mentally crash and burn.
Have you ever heard about the clitoris?
> my "besto" revealed a lie I told nearly a year ago about myself that I made out w/ hot Belgian chick
> is this on him or me? Ofc I presume is on me, just reaffirm if true
Next time don't lie about your past to look cool. It makes you look pathetic when you get called out.
What is the powder called you can put in your hair to degrease it? I talked to a girl and she said it's bad to shower and use shampoo every single day but my hair gets greasy as fuck after a few hours.
She told me there's powder you can rub in your hair that just gets rid of the grease and shit without being as harsh as washing it.
It's literally called dry shampoo
What shampoo you using? Using any conditioner? Water temp should be lukewarm at most when washing hair.
You a guy? Girls hair is thicker than guys and can go without washing. I am a guy and even with very short hair if I don't wash it every day it's greasy, even if I rinse it off in the shower it's bad after a day. And when I had longer hair, it was a necessary wash everyday or I looked like complete trash.
Tldr: guys need to wash hair everyday.
A friend of mine talked about my status(single) to her girlfriend. She think a friend of hers might be interested in me. We are now thinking about having a double date kind of thing. Any suggestions? Things I should avoid talking about? How should I dress myself?(I'm 17) Should I keep asking about her life or should I talk about my skills? Any goto argument to avoid awkward silences?
Chill dude. Don't do a dinner date, go do something mildly active. Have fun, talk like she's a new potential friend. It's not a job interview lol. Remember, you should be looking to see if she's a good match for you rather than doing your best to instantly become attached while ignoring any red flags you see.
Thats cool. Dress normal and have fun. One of the few dating times you should feel not nervous.
Try maybe mini golf or bowling
>have little work experience, just graduated college in april
>start working at my current job (with an already generous starting wage) since september
>learn to pick things up very quickly
>get into work early every day
>apparently i work really fast, and my work is good
>i even spend over time, unpaid and by my own will just to finish tasks faster
>boss likes me, and sees i work hard. my last performance review critique was to literally "slow down"
as he was passing me one day, he keeps telling me i'm doing good work. he jokes i am a "show off" when i complete my tasks; all in good fun though.
so because this is my first "real" job, i'm wondering when is a good time to ask for a raise? everything down town is expensive, especially in my city. even with my wage, it's still not quite enough to keep a car and i often have to budget for months (or find extra income) to buy nice things for myself. i also have to pay off my student loans, and i would like to do that as soon as possible.
You could ask him if he has some extra tasks for some bonus salary.
How long the company has been up and running? Usually after the first year is ok. But if your boss has ruled for a long time, he might expect long service from you too before asking for a raise.
Check the economical situation of the company. If the business is booming and making nice profit, then go ahead when the time is right.
i'm actually being moved to another division to expand my skills next week. i'm guessing that's part of the employee blueprints though, to eventually make everyone versatile enough to function in different sectors and tasks.
the company was around since 2008, but it was absorbed into a multi-billionaire company sometime in 2016. and we keep growing and hiring new people. from my understanding, we're moving locations to a bigger office soon too and are holding off new hires until then since it's so cramped right now.
but i might be thinking of asking for a raise too soon? maybe i should wait another year or until he brings it up? i'm not sure, this is all kind of new to me.
I dont know what to do, i dont have friends , i dont have a gf , all the people think that im stupid and ugly, im tired! i want kill myself!
Good. Now tell us why do you feel like this, why do you think nobody likes you, what have you tried to improve your situation and how did it work out in the end.
I don't normally say this around here, but if life is too hard for you bruh just end it. Only in deaths sweet embrace can you find the light
Tell me how to not fuck this up.
>went on a group trip last week and i met this girl
>We talked a lot, she seemed interested in me >got her number on the last day
>will never see her again in person.
What do i say to her to not fuck this up. I've only ever had one girlfriend before so this is all pretty vague for me.
If you're sure you'll never see her again....why are you worrying about it?
Can you get PTSD from having your feelings hurt?
I got rejected by my best and only friend about 2 and a half years ago. He made me trust him to open up about my feelings for him and then brutally rejected me anyway. And i can't get over it.
I cry all the time, i fall into depressions for weeks at a time, i think about suicide often, I'm afraid of people, i have nightmares, i have vivid and intrusive memories that can pop up out of nowhere, I've gone from assuming that people generally like me to feeling unwanted and unliked by default. I bail from potential friendships and relationships the moment i sense potential for pain, which is always early.
I don't know what to do. I feel weak and ashamed that something hurtful but ultimately minor could break me so easily.
What is going on with me?
Thanks, I will definitely pick some up today. I've been trying to keep a bullet journal full of tasks to do to keep me occupied, but I fall apart after 2 or 3 weeks of activity, have a depression period for 2 or 3 weeks, cyclically.
But I think vitamin taking is simple enough I can do it daily without issue, whether I'm in a depression or not.
I have seen this before. its actually easy to get over, but doing it is extremely difficult, for a short period of time. its called suicide
you don't have ptsd you're just retarded
i am considering that. i did make a half assed attempt at one point, but obviously it did not work.
i feel like i have another year left in me to turn shit around or gtfo
At what age I'm supposed to decide if I should or not keep existing?
Every time I feel like I can't keep going, it's always the same
things will not magically turn around for you if you do not want to out in the effort.
and in saying that, if you don't want to change things, then you may as well stop existing now.
there is no magic age where life will get better for you.
I'm thinking 30, if my life is still garbage by 30 I'm going to get nice life insurance and die an accidental death, maybe like get lost in the woods or something.
there is no social/societal expectation that you kill yourself by any age regardless of how you live your life.