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Get it off your chest, whatever is bothering you
There's this cute Korean girl at my school and I wanna ask her out but she's way out of my league and I know that no matter how much gains I make I will never be good enough for her and she'll reject me no matter what
I feel incredibly conflicted with how low my self esteem is and how much i want to have sex with you. Im taking new medication thst has boosted my sex drive (even more so than it was before) andi want to have sex with you constantly. However, im still too insecure to fully enjoy it. The last time we did it wasthe closest ive gotten to finishing with you and it makes me feel like shit for not being able to just relax and be with you in that moment.
I remember the events of today last year vividly still. They’ve haunted me at night every night since getting off of my meds recently. These drugs have caused breathing problems.
I hope you don’t have any of those memories haunting you. I wouldn’t wish it on even my worst enemy. There are times where I wish I was dead. Other times I fight with everything i have to keep choosing life through each manic episode I’ve experienced since being re-diagnosed. I don’t understand many things that happened. And I don’t believe that time heals all wounds. But I hope you are well and thriving. I hope you’re fighting for your life. I hope you’ve known joy in this year. I was blessed to have known you and been with you at all. You showed me genuine love. You didn’t judge me. You took me as I was. For a time, you understood me. You treated me with respect. I see now in hindsight that our relationship was deteriorating and had become unhealthy. I could list numerous ways where we could’ve pushed through together but, to what end? In my losing you I gained many. I gained a closeness with my family (not at first but gradually. It’s complicated). I gained courage to be blunt and forthcoming with my medical team. I gained courage to advocate for mental illness and have been surprised at how I’ve influenced many people in positive ways. People ask me if I’m glad I didn’t succeed in taking my life. Most people don’t want an honest answer. As much as mental illness is talked about, as trendy as it is now, most people don’t really want to know the ugly truth. I’ve gained courage to continue anyway in spite of that. Here I am posting this not in hopes you’ll read this but I’m hope that I’ll have a lighter mind. My heavy heart ive conceded will always remain. But what would I be without a heavy heart and a painful past? You always people with such sadness and pain were the most interesting, didn’t you? I wish you well. Truly.
that picture is retarded. the flare up would've still lit all the other matches. only one that doesn't burn is the muh martyr selfish faggot
1. I wanna connect with this friend I have trouble talking to, because I feel so awkward when I'm around her. Platonically -speaking. I just can't seem to find something to talk about!
2. I want to find someone who's caring and loving, and all that great stuff. Because I fear I'll find myself living alone in the future.
3. Regrets I've made in the past
How did you get over your ex who was perfect for you?
Fucking other girls doesn't work for me, already tried it. It's been Since August, like 4-5 months when she completely cut me off.
You already have an answer, you must crusade.
life is a crusade
Every day you wake up it is a crusade, you must fight your inner bitch you must crusade against yourself. You are your worst enemy
hey bud, I'm in a similar boat as you. My ex broke up with me about 8 months ago. We've been no contact for three months now. It's just tough. It doesn't really get easier for a long time. You just have to keep working on yourself.
My ex cut me off completely, felt like I really wronged her. Really has me reevaluating my life and the decisions I've made. I recommend confronting your downfalls in the relationship and really honing in on them. Take the time to analyze your mistakes and try your best to fix them in the future. Be honest with yourself while doing so. Also, think about things she did wrong in the relationship and analyze those as well. See if you can view these things objectively, without the rose-colored lenses. Learn from these situations as well. Take care of yourself. Don't be afraid to shy away from plans or doing anything socially contractual that you don't want to do. Learn to love being alone and being yourself. It's just time to grow.
I came here to say this. Good advice.
I think I'm in love with my current gf. We've only been going out for a month, but I never felt this close to any other girl I've dated in my life. I never said those three words to any girl ever, and I'm kind of scared to. If I say 'I love you' to her, will I fuck it up, or should I wait for her to say it first? I'm also scared of committing too, so there's that.
Need some advice bros, been thinking about this all day.
wait for her to say it first, wait until the longest relationship time you've been through to make an accurate assessment of your feelings for her (or at least a year) because the honeymoon period is very real.
If you're scared of commitment then you're not in love.
isn't a year too long to wait to say something like that?
I'm scared of the future because I'm a NEET loser and saying i love you makes her expecting more from me.
why don't you ask her if she loves you?
before having sex, pull your dick out, she will want it inside her put dont put it in her yet. tease her. then ask her if she wants it. hopefully she will say yes. then ask if she really wants it in her? "yes" and then ask "do you love me?" and only give her the dick if she says she loves you, make her say "i love you" make her say your name "i love you [full name]" you can't go wrong with this one.
If you have to ask them you’re not ready. Don’t do it. When you’re ready and you really do love her (or any other person you happen to become romantically involved with) you won’t hesitate.
Just proposed to my gf, now fiance. Is it cool to include her in the family group chat now? It just consists of my parents, aunts, uncles, grandparents, siblings, and cousins. Currently, no significant others.
Do you think it's weird to put her in the family group chat? My sister has a bf and they have a kid together but he's not in the family group chat.
Is it a big deal if I put my fiance in it? She feels left out and I'm tired of having to relay messages to her about holiday get togethers and things like that.
She's my soon to be wife, what's the big deal in including her into the family group chat? Or do I have to wait until we're officially married?
Then fucking add her what did you make this thread for
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>family group chat >It just consists of my parents, aunts, uncles, grandparents, siblings, and cousins.
Are family groupchats a normal thing?
my parents don't even have cellphones so I wouldn't know.
>It just consists of my parents, aunts, uncles, grandparents, siblings, and cousins. Currently, no significant others. >parents, aunts, uncles, grandparents Are you retarded? Just add her.
what the fuck is going with my mom?
she had this anxiety episode in which she forgot who she was, and who I was.
Another odd thing is that she tried to put a cup in the freezer as it were a cabinet.
then she tried to drink the water from the toilet.
After this happened I tried to take her to my room and lay her on my bed, but she then passed out and didn't breathe.
After I made her breathe again, she tried to hit her head against the door repeatedly.
after this happened I just laid her on my bed and the Paramedics arrived, they took her blood pressure and sugar(she has high blood pressure and the sugar readings were fine)
She also told me this morning that she forgot who she was and where she was.This happened the morning after she had another anxiety attack for the same reason, in the last anxiety attack she hit her head after she passed out.
But the cops and paramedics ruled it out.
But she is only 45 years old.....
Not enough fucc in her life. She is self destructing from it all...all the years wasted raising you....
can be early onset, really sucks when it does. Fucking terrible luck, not only will she die, but she'll spend the next 10 years of your life being a total bitch and not knowing who you are.
Is there any especific thing that causes the episodes?
I appreciate the comedy in this kind of situations anon, but my mom wasnt a cum dumpster and I wasnt a waste of cum either.
my dad will take care of her then, but he is like 20 years older than her.
yes it happens when she receives really bad news, this one in particular happened because my sister (26 years old ) is trying to move out of home and she fears her bf will be abusive since my dad and him had a fist fight the day of her graduation party.
I feel stuck and I feel like I fucked up really bad. I'm making this friend of mine be in an uncomfortable void between distant friend I rarely see/text first, and relationship. I really wish I could just cut contact/tell him I'm not interested so that he can get over me, but he struggles with depression and I know losing a dear friend will do more harm than good, (even if said friend keeps him on a leesh). It may look like a form of sadism on my part, but I actually feel so bad for what I do. I do my best to distance myself so he can learn not to need me, but I know that he's gotten fit, gotten a job and an education just so that I can take him seriously. I'm so scared that if I cut ties, all that work will be for nothing and that he'll see no point in anything which may lead to more suicidal thoughts.
What should I do? When a depressed guy puts you on a pedestal and you became a goal to obtain. I'm so scared of telling him I'm not down to date him.
I guess I led him on since I haven't told him I didn't want to (since he didn't ask).
Been going on for a couple of years btw.
Thank you anon, I think that's good advice.
From Canada and I met him at a New Year's party.
Can you tell me how you wish she would deal with this situation? Like what could she do to help you move on and feel just as happy with another person.
Also, you're very strong that you're meeting new people/tried to move, even though it feels fruitless to you. Don't give up!
It is from experience. There is someone who is the love of my life, we have been friends for many years. I always loved them and wanted them as more than friends, but I genuinely enjoyed our friendship too. Eventually they gave me a chance and we became more than friends for a long time, just this year however they decided they didn't actually love me and that tore me apart. But they told me we would still be friends. Well each month they kept pushing me further and further away and hurting our friendship more and more. Maybe they thought like you do, that they could force me to feel different. But that did nothing good. That part kills the most, losing my best friend. They out of the blue just started ignoring me, they have been pretending to be gone for almost two weeks now. Most of that time I was wide awake frantically trying to see if they were alright, until I found out the truth. Yesterday I tried to kill myself, and unfortunately I failed. So believe me when I say, you can't force feelings and the loss of a close friend can cut deeper then being rejected for some people.
I guess if she doesn't feel the same way no matter what i do, i understand it's impossible to force feelings on another person, but please don't leave him, sure knowing that we can only be friends would hurt me a bit but i have dealt with way worse than that thanks to her, i have a good group of friends but if im completely honest, only her smile making my day better can give me enough strength to someday find a girl that can love me
From there you need to pay attention to whatever girl ends up falling for him, you are gonna need to help her alot
His heart belongs to you, it will be very difficult for any girl to take your place even if you think she is already miles better than you
Thank you for being honest and telling me about your experience. I really don't want anyone to feel in such a pain where they would rather not live at all, and I'm so sorry you had to go through that. Although I'm not sure why the girl would do that to you, I know that it could possibly be to get you to be more independent/not want her, which she maybe thought would help you longterm. I don't think she would consciously do anything to hurt you.
I will stop going out of my way to distance myself from my friend.
Thank you anon.
So advice, recently I've started saving Loli on my computer. I live in Texas so I guess it's technically illegal, although the law itself is very vague and I've never heard of anyone getting arrested for the possession of it. I'm not attracted to kids or anything like that I just like Loli porn.
My main question is, should I be concerned and should I delete this off my computer?
I’ve watched a lot, but i rarely ever save.
I just feel its bad to leave a trace of this around. Maybe some day, a gf, a relative, or a friend end up using my computer and discover my hidden fetish.
Maybe then they will make a big thing out of it, maybe it will destroy my life.
So, never save. But you can keep at set of favorites on exhentai or something like that.
Alright man I deleted it off my computer. I really hate that I have this fetish but its one of the few things that works for me these days. Best to be as safe as possible.
You could also encrypt it, but fuck.. if you have it like that, then you just forget it unencrypted at some point.
I used to a special linux vm with an encrypted harddrive image that i used for things like this, and buying weed online and stuff.
In the end, they found out about the weed anyway, but they could never prove i had ordered it, and i never confessed so..
But getting busted for weed is like 1000 times more likely than getting busted for loli, unless you also do CP or something.
They dont have time for people who commit mindcrime by fapping to cartoons.
If you like porn of kids getting dicked you like kids getting dicked. That simple, ditch it anon.
the thing with perversions is that the more you expose yourself to them the more you can start to enjoy them. You have to stop what you are doing immediately, it's a slippery slope
I just started law school and I don't know anyone here, and I am far away from my old town. I have tried talking to folks at places that pertain to my interests, but I have trouble taking it from being acquaintances, to being friends and actually hanging out.
been trying for about a year, but I have made no progress. Any help?
If you get any assignments that require you to work in a group, use that chance to eat somewhere and socialize.
Have u tried disc golf? I've made so many friends since I started, great people. Great sport!
How can I get 500$ from internet?
Just send me your credit card info, I'll wire you 500 bucks.
My email: firstname.lastname@example.org
WHY DOES NOBODY EVER SAY WELFARE?
DUDE... OP... JUST GAME THE SYSTem
Lie to the government and take the free money. If you have nothing to start, you have nothing to lose. Plus niggers do this every day by the thousands.
Masturbate on camera
How do you know your morals aren't just you being a pussy/unwilling egoist. What's the difference between knowing something is wrong and being domesticated?
For example if you ever had a violent desire you didn't act out on, are you nonviolent or just a beta?
>>19051309 >How do you know your morals aren't just you being a pussy/unwilling egoist.
They are, in a way. Essentially suppressing natural human instincts and behavior for fear of punishment whether it be social ostracization or imprisonment.
>For example if you ever had a violent desire you didn't act out on, are you nonviolent or just a beta? >For example if you ever had a violent desire you didn't act out on, are you nonviolent or just a beta? >For example if you ever had a violent desire you didn't act out on, are you nonviolent or just a beta?
REALLY depends on the context.
In the end it always seems to be because you're a pussy, having boundaries is good though and doesn't make you a beta. Else everyone would be a beta.
What about mental disorders? If it's all just instinctual behaviors can you really be mentally ill if you've retained normal logical ability?
It might depend on context, but really having morals, rules that you stand for and stick by, I wouldn't see that as cowardly, just someone of good character
Say for example you were cheated on, you realize how much pain it can cause an individual. You tell yourself "I'd never subject someone to that kind of torment, because I know it is unnecessary suffering on a individual I am not ready to inflict, even if I don't know that person" Now down the line, you are presented to sleep with someone that is engaged or married or whatever, now surely if you were someone of good character and high morals you wouldn't sleep with that person, because you know the pain it'd cause someone This is true strength, resisting your primal desire for higher purpose, sure some people might call you a pussy or whatever, but you wouldn't have betrayed yourself and what you think is right. You have to draw the line for yourself somewhere OP, you have to tell yourself that there are things you will not do, whether it be killing someone that isn't threatening you, stealing unnecessary things, or even sleeping with someone else partner.