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Hey /adv/. My cousin, who I think is 10, is brain dead. He choked, and had a heart attack, then multiple seizures afterward. They just signed a DNR order.
How do I deal with this?
damn, I guess no one has any advice.
therapy. sorry about your loss
Taking him out back and executing him yourself. This is the ultimate gift you may grant him.
Are you against this? If you are did you make your argument, but if you have no power over this then im sorry for your loss
>GF dies of heart condition
>haven't slept in a week
>haven't left my room for 8 days straight
>straight eating codeine to sleep
>life is in shambles
>her and my wardrobe full of clothes that have so many memories that used to mean the world
>all these fucking clothes
What do I do with these clothes? Her closet is full of clothes from good brands. Should I keep them? Throw them away? Its like a ghost thats constantly haunting me. The things she wore are now empty. Like the shell of a broken man that I am.
And where the fuck are you from? 9gag? British loser
I am so sorry dude.
PIIIIIIIIIIIICKLE RIIIIIIIICK!!!!!!! XDDD
thats tough dude, at least you can live peacefully knowing you were the last thing she ever truly loved, that her last feelings were tied deeply with you and you could lose that or grow to resent and that you could never make a mistake for her nor her to you.
I got a date with this chick yeasterday and she basically promised she will suck my dick next weekend.
This made me happy and i started fantizising about her yesterday. Then today i started noticibg all these beutiful girls on the buss and on the subway and on the street. What the fuck is going on, did i just enter mating season or what?
>>18830869 >Is this how normies feel?
Yea, now get off my board
Dude, you gotta live your life at some point in life.
>>18830850 >I got a date with this chick yeasterday and she basically promised she will suck my dick next weekend.
I got a date with a chick who sucked my dick that night. Girls making you wait is a shit-test you better be fucking other women in the interim
it's a freeforall nowadays
I dunno, she lives a few hours away. She said she was going to drive here. I guess i’ll see what happens.
>>18830850 > Did I just enter mating season
Basically, yes, and you can thank Christians for it. Women are looking for boyfriends to take home to the family over the holidays (Thanksgiving and Christmas).
Remember that a woman has the right to change her mind. If she does, for God's sake don't throw a tantrum, hit her or try to force her. You're an adult, act like one.
And don't forget hygiene. Remember, her nose is going to be down there as well. If you drop trou and smell like a hairy block of blue cheese, all she's going to do is gag.
I liked this guy in my class. I know he might have a thing for me as well since he tried to be close to me, look at me when I don't pay attention. There's a few times where both of us looking at each other in the same time. We only have two classes together and I only see him once a week. What can I do the next time I see him? I tried tinder and swiping as much as I can but seems like he's not using tinder. I can't go talk to him, I can't even walking out of the class in the same time as him.
Literally just sit next to him and say hi.
If that's too hard, just ask him for a pencil or something.
He has his own group and always with his friends I don't know how to process
And then what? After borrowing a pencil something from him?
DON'T respond to Hits
This. That's pathetic is annoying as fuck
college kid blah blah strapped for cash blah blah etc etc
I saw flyers hung up on my College's bulletin board offering $50 per donation, with up to I think four or five donations a month, and that adds up.
I'm a healthy, 19 year old male. I take prescription adderall and wellbutrin.
Is plasma donation worth it?
Cash = no report
Anything else = report
you can be healthy and already a blood donor and still not be suitable as a plasma donor. those who are selected (after a quick blood test) may be asked to attend several times a month, that's correct.
I was in the same situation and wanted money for weed. I would go like twice a week and shit. After a while the needle started to bother desu, I don't have any problems with needles but I could just feel it in there after a while. Also I believe it affected my mood somehow and I have a small scar from doing it a lot.
Yeah, I would say so, I've done it before and had few to no averse effects
Make sure you drink a lot of water the day before you do it, otherwise you could have a negative reaction or be unable to complete your donation
The process of getting signed up to do it is lengthy and can take hours, and you have to fill out a long questionnaire each time you donate to determine if your plasma is safe to give to people (there's no chance of you having any bloodborne diseases) and if it would be healthy for you to do so
A lot of companies will give you a prepaid card and put the money they give you on it
Don't use that card as a debit card, they'll charge you fees every time you do
The advice I got from multiple workers was to use the cash back function at a store to withdraw your cash
>be pre-engineering major, in an intro chem class
>have trouble with basic shit like theoretical/percent yield or stoichiometry even when paying attention to lectures or videos online
Should I drop out and pursue a trade?
If you want it, you will get there. If you don't actually care about being an engineer then, do something else.
I have both mild asperger's syndrome and general depression/anxiety. Will I ever lose my virginity, or even kiss a girl?
Not so long as you keep up the attitude that you're a victim or that you have something with you. Also stop going on /r9k/.
A lot of people have issues and problems with their lives. While yours are linked to communication and behavior that doesn't make you any less of a person. I have a deformity on my foot that keeps me from being able to walk properly. It's painful and causes me to walk differently in a way that's noticeable and that people point out often. I used to be bitter and blame everyone and act the victim for my misfortune. Then I realized that it didn't do anything. It wasn't until I accepted what I had just said "who the fuck cares" and started doing my own thing where it finally stopped being an issue. Things are only an issue if you allow them to be. Learning to let go of your insecurities is probably one of the most difficult things you can do. I'm not saying that I don't somedays feel insecure and somedays wish it hadn't happened to me, but I think I have more days where I feel good and acceptant about what I have and just roll with it. >tl;dr: Stop playing the victim/feeling sorry for yourself and play the cards you're dealt because there's literally nothing else you can do
I never said I hate myself. I like certain aspects of myself and strongly dislike others. I've put a lot of effort towards bettering myself but it seems it's never enough to make me truly "normal".
I quit /r9k/ a long time ago. It's boring now anyway.
The fact that my disorder specifically and, in my case, almost exclusively affects my social relationships is very depressing for me. I crave relationships with other human beings. I have managed to make close friends, but my social life is still not ideal. And getting a girlfriend, a date, or having sex is essentially impossible for me because of how socially stunted I am.
A lot of people with asperger's/autism don't even want to strive for a neurotypical life. I do. I've always wanted to be normal. When I was diagnosed with asperger's as a young teenager I cried and hated myself for years. I am deeply embarrassed by it. It's my deepest, darkest secret.
I'm in the same boat anon. I want to feel something... anything for someone that isn't family.
I don't wanna be those autists that say they're asexual or some other such shit. I want to be normal and treated normal.
As for depression and anxiety, I go to a therapist (been going to different ones for years) but this one practices something called EMDR. It finds what is/was the cause of your insecurities. i.e. why so anxious around girls or why you may be pissed. The therapy is used on PTSD induced veterans.
Can't guarantee anything but it helps me a lot. Even asked several girls for their numbers. I just have to learn how to create a relationship.
>>18830360 >same problems and then some
I have faith in you anon, relax.
How to break up?
My boyfriend lies, cheats, and drinks. He's insecure and accuses me of cheating all the time and uses it as an excuse to act badly. He basically sucks in all ways.
However, whenever we fight and break up, I can barely last a day before texting him and letting him sweet talk me back. I have zero friends. When I'm alone my anxiety is constant and being with him helps it. I've forgiven him for cheating, flirting, drinking, driving drunk, lying, disrespecting me, holding me in the house against my will.
I can clearly tell I need to leave. Why do I keep getting with him? All of it to me is worth it not to be alone. How can I stay firm? Its such a hassle to leave and start again.
(I've done this in other relationships and used this new bf as a way to break up with my ex without being singlefor more than a week)
7 months dating
Actually i have my own place, car, and job. He doesnt like when I spend the night at my own house because of his insecurity. The issue is anxiety and loneliness not income.
>>18830473 >(I've done this in other relationships and used this new bf as a way to break up with my ex without being singlefor more than a week)
I'm sorry but kind of a tangent here. Why did you feel the need to do that? What's wrong with being single?
My exgf did this but I was kind of a rebound too so I'm not complaining but I'm genuinely curious.
I hate being alone. It gives me anxiety. I need the attention of a boyfriend. Also i have no friends so im stuck at home all day with anxiety and a break up on top of that. Another guy is a good distraction.
I'm over my ex now but it took like a month or two. It was nice to still have someone to fall asleep with and i was honest about the break up and stuff with the new guy.
>>18831103 >I hate being alone.
What will you do if you stop attracting men altogether in the future?
At some point in your growth you'll have to look at and reap the fruits of self-investment, you have to be brave and face your fear/hate of loneliness.
Wow, a beta female. I honestly pity you to some extent. Ditch the guy and Seek help.
I need a new username, it can be anything, my current one is a mix between my Nick name and real name so is really hard to say and is really boring
What are the best ways to tell if your gf is truly attracted to you?
Are there usually any visible signs in a relationship where a girl isn't very attracted to her bf/husband on a physical level? My gf seems almost constantly turned on by me, but i've always feared being in a one-sided relationship where i'm being settled for and she doesn't find me very attractive, but won't admit it. That's how cheating happens.
Do ugly guys with gfs get as much sex as good looking guys with gfs? Do less than appealing 'beta providers' usually have to work for sex if they're in a relationship? My gf is pretty much putty in my hands and is ready to go whenever i initiate sex.
She really does all that and more. She screenshots all my snapchats, she gives me the 'fuck me' eyes all the time. Sometimes the moment she comes over she doesn't even say anything but "hi babe" before jumping on me and making out with me all the way up to the bedroom. She even goes as far as to start nonchalantly rubbing my dick under the table when we're having dinner with her family.
I definitely feel like the attraction is mutual, or she might even be more attracted to me than i am to her. But i've always been hard on myself and have some pretty insecure thoughts.
I get it but the first step is realizing that your insecurity (honestly going by these two posts I'd call it paranoia) is your biggest issue at the moment. For the relationship and for your personal happiness. You can never be 100% sure of what goes on inside someone's head but what you describe is the clearest it gets. If that isn't enough the issue is you, not her (behavior).
You're right. I don't know i'm paranoid from all the shit about women that's been beaten into my head by angry frustrated men.
>>18830498 >What are the best ways to tell if your gf is truly attracted to you?
The problem is you know for a fact your girlfriend is attracted to you but your fear and insecurity are constantly convincing you that she isn't.
If you're asking what the best way to fix an insecurity is its to get therapy and work on it, not put your girlfriend through a series of tests to prove her dedication to you. Ultimately, she could spend 24 hours a day with you chained to your ankle and reciting poems about how great your dick is and your insecurity would still find a way to cast doubt and make you afraid.
You need to stop feeding your insecurity and start fighting it. It will eventually tank your relationship if you let this paranoia take control.
A good healthy relationship is based on trust, you know what I'm saying.