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Hey guys. I have heard 4chan might be no more. MOOT is selling it. I don't know if it is true. But anyway. I have to ask you guys on /adv/ something. There is this girl I love. I got some love songs that are like a story to our experience. But I never told her about them. Should I send them on my email? (I do not have her facebook or phone number)
Can't you list the songs in one post? Also it would be a creepy move since she hardly knows you, she'd be getting love songs from a stranger in her school email since you couldn't even ask for her number or facebook. "Story to our experience" what experience? Sitting together in class?
Actually they are love songs. And they do represent my romantic thoughts. All The things that are going through my head. Most of them are summarized in those songs. Wouldn't the girl I love understand? Would she just thing I am just a weird bullshit 4channer?
My Time is shortening.
My life is not as long as it was.
I won't be young again, I only have 3 years left as an adolescent.
Don't do it. Using songs is something people in high school do and probably not even anymore. It's so cringy you could found a town there and populate it with all the people who've go through with things like this. The cringe would slowly taint the ground and people driving through would get a vague sense of foreboding and look around nervously.
>>20259810 >I have heard 4chan might be no more. MOOT is selling it. I don't know if it is true
Big if true
I have a lot of girls on my Snapchat that I haven't talked to yet, and I'm thinking about hitting up a fair share of them to see if I can make something work out. What are some good pointers for sliding into DMs?
How did you get them on Snapchat without talking to them
Not OP but dating apps mostly
At my school there are group stories, and I added/was added by girls off those.
I think I'm pretty decent looking, so how do I ask a girl out over Snap that I've barely talked to otherwise?
What’s your Snapchat? I have a hot friend that could help you out with advice
This girl who has had a crush on me for the past 5 years just confessed it to me. She's undeniably attractive, and has homemaker tendencies which would make an objectively good partner.
The problem is that I don't really feel that much attraction to her emotionally, at least nowhere nearly as much as I have felt towards other girls.
I know I could easily get with her, but I feel like it would be for the wrong reasons.
What do, /adv/?
Why not just give her a chance? Go on a few dates and see if you connect.
Don't see the point in rejecting a girl unless you know it wouldn't work
>>20259727 >>20259763 >>20259778
These are good points, but I don't want to commit to something that I can't see panning out in the long run. I've never been one to just try to hook up, I'm ultimately trying to settle down with a family.
The funny part is that I'm only 22 and haven't really full-on dated anybody yet. Are my priorities out of whack?
You sound a bit like me. Don't worry about all that, you're young. If this girl is attractive at least go on a date or two. If you can tell it won't work out then you can reject her with peace of mind.
Otherwise the rest of your life you'll be thinking "what if"
>>20259811 >22 year old thinking he can make decisions
I made all my worst decisions in my early 20s, people of that age are literally children.
t. 31 year old Boomer
Learn to love her, sometimes people just grow on you
a-are vasectomies reversible
Yep! It's called a vasovasostomy.
There's currently research going on to make reversible vasectomies. The basic idea is they inject a liquid in your tubes that blocks the sperm, and when you want to reverse it they inject another liquid that makes the first one disappear.
Not sure how long till it can be used on humans but probably not for a while.
These don't always work, I wouldn't do it myself desu
maybe. why did you get your tubes chopped if you had doubt in the first place? just wear a condom inb4 doesnt feel the same yeah, well, actions and consequences
>>20259827 >These don't always work, I wouldn't do it myself desu
Of course they don't always work, but the success rate is decent. However, it's obviously not recommended that you go into a vasectomy planning on getting it reversed someday. The place for a revision is when there's changed circumstances (i.e., you got it because you wanted to have that bachelor lifestyle without the risk, and never planned on getting married... and then fell in love).
Mostly. Don't get one without at least two kids. Unless you're not white, then do it now.
Are there any philosophies, religions or maybe cults that focus on self-improvement? I mean, not just spiritual enlightenment but improvement in all areas of life, physical, intellectual, social, etc.
aren't pretty much all religions based on that? self-improvement to serve the community and the higher good, which brings more and more improvement.
Because philosophy and religion deal with the transcendent and you're too obsessed with the material to understand that
they all do retard
Try focusing on self improvement for the sake of self improvement. You literally don't need a religion or theology to do this, it's benefit is its purpose and vice-versa.
Based and redpilled
Guys am I the only one that doesn't like kissing? I find so boring and it just doesn't make me feel anything.
I would call myself above average when it comes to looks. I also have a ok height and I am fit. I like to go to clubs and Partys and most of the time I get approached by girls I then start dancing with them and have fun but at some point they go for the kiss and sometimes I go with it but most of the time I block it. I love having sex and during sex this isn't so much of a big deal. But when dancing the girls expect you to go for the kiss or they will go for it. When I decline the kiss I blow it most of the time.
Any advice on the topic? I am 100% not gay. I think I just have to learn how to like it. I don't think there is any way around it. By the way how was your weekend guys
You don't have feelings for any of these girls. Kissing is a physical expression of affection or love. Without real affection behind it, it's just two people mashing their mouths together
idk, it isnt so much the smacking lips but what you do with your hands and etc that makes it fun
That's weird. I love kissing, especially if the girl's good at it and you can tell she really finds you hot. Also it's an easy ego boost in clubs
a kiss is a very emotional thing anon. the difference between a kiss that was just vapid and a kiss that made every hair on my body stand was that emotional investment.
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hey /adv/ I'm 18, graduated, but I don't know what I'm doing. My goal is to be a homemaker and raise children/support a strong man, but I'm starting to believe that's impossible in this day and age. I value morals and ideals, and consider myself conservative. I am stuck with 20k in car debt I'm paying down because my parents are not able to financially assist me. Car costs me 900 a month between payments/gas/insurance.I can't sell the car(underwater by alot), or get it repoed. I can't save much. I currently work full time as a server, and make about 1200 a month. I have been working since I was 16. I live in my car. What can I do to get myself a better career/out of this pit? I am a hard worker, and am willing to study and put my discipline to work.
halloween cake I did,bumpo
You can bump it all you want, there's not much good advice out there for people in your situation.
Unfortunately, you fucked up. Taking on a car loan of over $20k at your age is simply not a sound decision if your parents can't back you up. Your only real options are to either continue with status quo until the car's paid off, or find a way to start making lots of money. Or, if you're pretty, then suck up your conservative pride and get with an ugly sugar daddy. If your goal is to find a career, There ARE things you can do that don't require college degrees. Most of them are NOT glamorous, though, so be prepared to do a job you hate.
Damn, well if it makes you feel any better I'm a dude that believes the same exact things that you do, abstinent and everything. So don't lose hope for what you're looking for. Hell, you probably have a higher change of finding what we want more than I do. I was evicted from my parents home and had nothing, but I actually have a pretty decent life now after working for it, so just don't ever stop trying.
How do I do it as fast as possible? I went around 6 months without contact and thought I was over it, but started to think about her. I fucked up by reaching out and getting rejected which made me feel a lot worse then before I contacted.
I used to be able to just talk to anyone whenever and however. Crack jokes and make people laugh. Something just broke in me and I feel like everything I say will just upset people and my mind goes too quickly to dark humor and makes people uncomfortable. It sucks.
>I feel my issue is trauma enduced. It's also hard for me to tell if times have changed or if I have changed, but either way I don't feel like I fit in in modern society. If I can't power through being shut down in one more year, I'm gonna get professional help.
What I can say from when I wasn't like this is how I used to talk to people before. I'd tell interesting stories and ask them questions. People don't have the attention span for this anymore it seems tho :^(
>Also humor doesn't work the same anymore as everyone just goes to the internet to laugh now
quickest way is to meet and fuck other women
well OP, now you've learned that reaching out is never a good idea. It feels bad right? So don't do it next time.
Never reach out to an ex who dumped you, it almost never works. I guess you can unblock her, just stop using social media for a while. If she really wants to fix it, she will contact you, but you shouldn't put your life on hold for her decision.
I can't make my boyfriend cum
I'm his first girlfriend, first everything
I'm a fit and decently attractive female. I work out, eat well, do kegels, and stay flexible.
He says he's desensitized, but he doesn't death grip and he's uncut. He even did nofap and he still can't.
Any other men have this problem? Any advice?
I can only cum from fapping
I think its called death grip or iron grip or something
I find it hard as fuck to cum from a blowjob. I dunno they just feel weird. And my girl usually doesn't have the arm strength to finish me with a hand job but I always cum during sex
Is it the same for your boyfriend?
The fact that /adv/ doesn't use a post id system like /pol/ is so fucking retarded. This shit happens way to often.
they don't because then they wouldn't be able to larp in their own theards and the containment of the board would go crazy.
You're too loose
Double down on those kegels