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How do I stop being so obnoxious all the time. It gets me attention.
>tfw in my 30s and never learned this >tfw dad is in his 60s and never learned this either I dunno man, I just get a lot of laughs out of being an asshole and making people feel uncomfortable.
2. meditate 3. macrobiotics 4. qi gong 5. Buddhism
The people I'm around are giving me the feeling they're sick of it. It's my good friend's fiances birthday party and I'm kinda being an asshole.
>inb4 just stop
I literally don't know how.
I want to fuck so many girls
I have a gf, and she's wonderful. She's the only girl i've ever been with though, and when we go out and i see really hot, slutty looking girls who are dressed to kill, it drives me crazy. Like i really want to fuck all of them. I love my girl too much to cheat, how can i bring these thoughts down from a ravenous thirst to a passing admiration of their looks? I jerk off a helluva lot so porn doesn't really damper it.
These women would never fuck you bro. Count your blessings.
unless you're planning to marry her I'd say go out and play the field.
Convince gf to three-way/open relationship
Fuck everyone Realise you've made a huge mistake and an hero Best way to go friendo
stop jerking it you clown and fuck your girlfriend like mad
dont be a bitchboy, learn to control yourself
You know /r9k/ is always getting triggered people rebuking them when they say they deserve a gf?
You don't deserve a gf. OP. The J-man is right, you can cheat in your heart as much as you can in your dick.
Whenever I make a bad decision or do something offensive or rude, people say it's because of my autism
How can I tell the difference between what's from autism and what's just from my own bad choices?
You really can't tell I know what that is like but I never told the people I knew about my autism but they would always say I was rude sometimes you just don't know it's honestly just impossible but keep your hopes up I just lost mine so I don't think I will be here long good luck you autistic fuck.
Always take responsibility for your choices and your actions, always try to make amends when you've done wrong and try to do better.
How do I deal with all with my fantasies of bedding unattainable women?
Why not just become unobtainable yourself and get these girls?
by bedding attainable women. and consuming lots of alcohol.
Virgin here guyse.
Hit the gym, eat better and read at least one book per month.
Go to a strip club and get a lapdance.
So how are you supposed to react in a situation like that? I told him it's fine if he wants to talk about it, but it's also okay if he doesn't. He didn't elaborate much, other than that the person who did it was a his family's friend. Didn't tell me when it happened.
And now I feel guilty, because I probably should've asked if he's safe now, or maybe I ought to have encouraged him to go to the police or to tell his parents? I don't know whats the correct course of action in situations like these.
You don't do anything about it.
You should tell him to see a counselor/psych and pretty much treat him as you did before. His personal issues are not yours.
Imagine having a life so comfortable and raised in a golden crib and fed with a silver spoon so badly that this would actually be a concern for you
>>20259008 >my obsessive resentment for anyone with money makes it impossible for me to feel empathy
I was molested too, pussy. It is not a big deal. It is like being mugged on the street, or randomly punched. There is nothing to do, or talk about
... and the pussy retreats
>be 28 depressed loser
>on facebook trying to find booty after a 3 year booty break
>see ex fiancee
>break up is what lead to severe depression
(Situation was shit, I don’t blame her)
>see she is married and looks geneuinely happy
>log out and decide to play vidyas to chill out
>get message, after 4 years, from said ex
>probably due to facebook and its hivemind features
>remember that she reaches out to exes when she has doubt in her current relationship
I’m going to reply, but curious on how I should play this
Start talking to her again, when you get proof from her she wants to cheat or something like that then screencap it and send it to her husband.
This is savage. Do it, OP.
How long have you been apart from your ex for before she got married?
If it was quick then this
Aye. So it shall be
I saw a therapist regularly from 2010 to 2015 and I feel like I got worse instead of better. But I kept going hoping that the next session would clarify everything.
Anybody else know this feel?
Therapy can help a lot of people with a lot of problems, but it can't fix everything
and how does that make you feel
I've never been to therapy, but I once heard a relationship therapist who apparently was really, really good say "If you're just sitting there in relationship therapy, and the therapist is just basically facilitating an argument and is kind of a referee... that's not therapy, that's just arguing in a controlled environment." He basically said if you're not getting anywhere in a month or two, find another therapist.
You should be making steady progress. If you're not, either you're not doing the work or the therapist is shit. Usually you're just not doing the work but I figure there's probably a lot of bad therapists too.
Yeah when I was a teen I saw one for like a year. He would just talk about random shit, after the first couple weeks we barely ever talked about any of my issues. Quickly became a chore and a huge waste of my parents money, but I couldn't tell at the time I should've asked my parents to look for a new one
My father is very hard to buy for during a holiday or event. He often just buys what he wants. He recently has gotten into hunting like he did when he was younger. I’d like to get him something hunting related, but I’ve never been out hunting, and I don’t know what he’d find useful.
What gift could I get my father that would be good for hunting?
What's your budget?
Here's a few ideas:
>$0-$50 >If you know what kind of gun he uses, bullets. >arrows/bolts if he's a bow hunter >warm clothes >those little hand-warmer packets >turkey/deer/duck call >hunting is mostly waiting, so buy some non-perishable food he can eat while standing around in the woods; Jerky or trail mix or whatever
>trail camera >if he hunts ducks or turkeys, decoys >camping gear >climbing gear if he likes to use a treestand >a nice hunting knife >$100-$500 >gun accessories; scopes, bipods, rangefinders >treestand >more camping gear >tickets to a guided hun >$500+ >a gun; legally he has to be the one to buy it, but you can provide the cash >custom woodwork for his gun >nicer guided hunt; like going to Canada to hunt moose
this is a great recommendation
if your budget is lower, consider a victorinox multi-tool. insane value for money and utility/space. if he doesn't have one, you can't go wrong with that. the hunter pro, though just a single function folding knife, is also a solid choice. spyderco knives are amazing but (unsurprisingly) overpriced imo.
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Thanks a lot guys, sorry I didn't give my budget, my max would have to be around $100. I like the idea of getting him a good hunting knife or warm gear. Hopefully he'll use it and not already have what I give him.
>>20259581 >consider a victornix multi-tool
I really like this idea but he already has a few multi-tools, but he might like having a new one.
Maybe get him a nice flask or something. You could engrave damn near anything on one to give it a customized touch.
No, Benchmade is way better.
I love my gf and I don't want to break up with her, but she wants kids and I don't. Wat fucking do.
Then break up. That or get snipped and don't tell her. At which point you're a lying piece of shit preying on her hopes. Just dump her on the basis of she wants kids and you don't.
That is a permanent incompatibility with the only resolution being changing your mind. If you're truly confident that you will never, ever want kids, you must break up.
fuck me its only been like 2 days since I've seen her but I already really miss her
>>20258965 >I'll be the same person I am now 10 fucking years from now and nothing you say will change that!
People like you are beyond irrational.
>gf and i are talking
>make joke about whiteness
>she starts talking about being black
>starts talking about black men
>starts talking about black cocks
>goes into explicit detail about it
this is making me very uncomfortable because she is so far away (egirl) and one of her best friends is a girl who only fucks black dudes
What do i dont want my gf to get blacked
Your girl sounds like a fucking degenerate
Niggie shes getting dicked as you speak she aint even hiding her polygamist ass
Dump her if you don't trust her anymore.
gotta slide in her ass man
Wtf dump her, but talk to her about it first. Tell us what she says, do it ASAP anon