I finally hit masters. The only problem is I feel like I fucked up. I still play with my low ranked friends and can't help but feel that they're retarded.
During my grind to masters I met a lot of new friends and naturally had meaningful conversations. They all understand points and counterpoints, there's little barrier in understanding and this results in positive outcomes.
However, this barrier still exists with my lower ranked friends. It's put a large strain on our relationships. Is there anyway I can salvage my relationship between them? Should I just lower my expectations?
A guy at my girlfriend's work left a note in my girlfriend's locker saying with his number on it saying that he'd like to get to know her better/hang out. How should I feel about this, what should I do? She's a bit of a loner at work so it would be cool if she was friendly with more people but I feel like its obvious his intentions are inevitably going to be romantic. Should I tell her to ignore the note or let her talk to the guy and see how it goes?
I have nothing to lose, take this story and guide my next few life decisions.
Kinda long but idc. > Been with girl since beginning of high school > Basically all four years > Literally in love > College starting soon > We break up with emotional conversation > Says I'm not there for her enough (which was true at the time) and briefly said she wants to "try something new"
Instantaneously filled with suspicion but never acted on it
> Few weeks pass and long time "buddy" comes in to town. > Not really a friend but not the worst person I've met. > He stays with recently ex-gf
painfully_ignorant.dll > Didn't think much of it because she'd never been the type to fuck around.
Few weeks later
> Reunite with gf > Been normal, like nothing changed > Says she loves me and can't go without me. > Enjoy life once again
2 Years later
> Currently living with gf > Says "can we talk?" > "When we were broken up I was seeing buddy" > "Oh ok, if you were just talking that's fine, the way you brought it up sounded like you fucked him or something."
That day I saw the deepest look of sorrow and regret I have ever seen with my own two eyes. I've only ever seen it on anyone else once before and it was under the exact same circumstances.
The next two days were the longest few days of my life filled with her crying and self-harming and me being stuck in my brain unable to talk because I guess I'm just nonfunctional in emotional situations. I was just there think about last few years of my life and how I basically grew up with her. I've talked to her and expressed my emotions and how I don't want it to end like this. Things are somewhat okay right now.
I just can't stop thinking about the idea of her with someone else. The thoughts are infecting my brain every hour of the day and I'm in visible pain no matter where I'm at.
The thought of it won't leave my head. I really love her, but don't know what path I need to walk here.
I was sexchatting with a girl and now she recorded me wanking off and said that she was going to spread it to all my IG followers.
I gave her a fake IG account that now is deleted. I had no real-life people following me here and most people I contacted were people for sexchat. I contacted her through Hangouts, now deleted, and I logged in with a fake email. She prop a photo of my face.
Why do cashiers/service people act differently around me?
I'm a girl, maybe it's me being young and they think I'm going to steal something because of it? For example when I was going to have breakfast at this hotel we were staying at yesterday, the woman at the desk let everyone else through but didn't let me through before I showed her my door key card. And today when I went to use the bathroom in a lunch place that was empty as it was too early for customers, a waitress gave me a weird look as I was leaving- when I looked back I saw that she hid the salads I walked past and put them inside a drawer from on top of it. Or am I just overreacting? This sort of thing happens to me often, service people and guards for example seem more on guard around me for some reason.
i landed a date on tinder and had an amazing time+was able to land a second date but shes like batshit crazy over the phone and lost it when i left her on read for an hour and a half while working a 11 hr shift. what do
I work in a sales position at a fairly small company. It's been over three months but I've only managed to close three deals. The problem here is that my position is small salary with commission, so the the paychecks for my full-time job are not even hitting $600 a week.
I'm finding myself demoralized. I push and I push and I push, and I have made a serious, positive impression in my local business community, but when it comes to securing / closing these deals I am really not getting anywhere. It's gotten to a point where I'm just feeling miserable when it's time to get to work. I'm doing amazing work, the team as a whole all recognize it and management as well as ownership are also saying the same, but I'm at a point where I feel just miserable having no free time until after work hours and hardly anything to show for it other than a pat on the back. It's not a hostile environment, but I feel like I'm dying on the inside. I am really good at what I do, but the only thing I'm not succeeding in is actually closing deals with these many many clients I've tried to onboard. It's now at a point where I've had so many get to the point where they just need to sign only for it to fall apart. I got great reviews at my 90 day evaluation, but now I'm at a point where, at a sales meeting, I'll get asked if I'm going to finish the month strong and I have no confidence in the answer because I just keep getting dragged by these clients that ultimately don't commit. I no longer feel comfortable giving assurances.