You know how long broken men have accomplished things? You think oh maybe if I said this differently or done this at a certain time. STOP THINKING AND JUST FUCKING DO IT. Get off this board and maybe even the internet for a few days and do what you know you should do. What should you do? You've known that for a long time but fear has controlled your every move. Step into the abyss and see that fear has no control but only if you let it. I keep seeing post after post about how do I do this or that? LOOK INSIDE YOURSELF, ONLY YOU KNOW. I don't know what you're doing right now or in 5, 10, 20 minutes from now. Work. Work on yourself. Build a stronger mind so your body will follow. Plan out your day if you never plan for anything. Talk to people who have ears and maybe they will listen. They send broken men off to fight broken wars for broken countries. Nothing is perfect and we're all broken in 1 way or another. The answers are there if you're willing to ask the right questions. Better men have died for less and will continue to do so. What have you got to lose my friend? What are you risking today for a better tomorrow? Answer that and you've answered everything.
I know this sounds fake but I wanna meet a guy that is artsy and edgy and stuff. I'm not really much of an edgelord but I find edgy dudes so cool. I'm a teenage girl who never really had a serious boyfriend, I'd say I'm decent looking but not what you expect when you hear "teenage Hispanic girl" I just really want some guy who can get on my level but also not judge me for liking cute stuff as well. I'm not a big 4chan user but I really do want some advice on how to attract guys like that. Do I need to branch out and stop being so shy around guys or do I need to just wait until some guy approaches me? I don't need someone who exactly fits all my standards but I would like someone who I could hug like a teddy bear, draw with (even if he's not a good artist) and laugh with. Should I just go back to fawning over 2D men or should I stop being such a loser and try asking some guys out? Much love to anyone who gives any advice, I would appreciate it! (｡・//ε//・｡)
I had an online relationship for a year with someone, but we broke up, either because of me or because of her. At first we were friends, but I got super attached to her, spent too much time with her, worried about her, and she treated me like a friend. But it turned out that through some unpleasant situations and time we managed to become a couple. At first everything was great and cool, we made plans, but again everything went wrong. So we broke up and two years later I drunkenly decided to write to her. It was my mistake. We started communicating again like before but did not bring up the past relationship, but after a while something happened again and I suggested to her that I would come to her in a week. And she was like, she needs to get ready or something.
I started having emotional swings, I felt bad that she kept thinking we were friends again. At least this time we also had some sexual texting with pictures.
I was sick of it I decided to share my failures with my friends. They told me, "Fuck it, dude, she's basically your ex, and you can't do business with exes. Maybe she used to have trust in you, but now she just doesn't.
I was very uncomfortable admitting the truth, so I banned her.
Anyway, now for the last week I have no motivation to do anything but sit around jerking off and eating junk food. When I think of her, I start blaming myself or something.
Now I feel really bad that I wasted my time on someone I never even fucking met. But I also feel lonely that when I talk to other people now I can't feel at all what I felt when I talked to her.
How do I stop blaming myself for everything, stop living in the past, and start doing something?
I'm 28 years old, has Asperges Syndrome, and have gone totally hermit outside of the daily grind. Before I totally isolate myself from the outside world, what is some important advice you'd give, as a Wizard-tier autist, to other adult autists? Autist opinions only, normies gtfo.
Once again, I have fallen into an abyss, this time the thing that pushed me over the edge was a stupid, shitty, song that reminded me of my friends pre-covid. This Halloween will mark the 2 year anniversary of the last time I talked to any of them, they've all forgotten me and moved on to better things, I acknowledge this is a selfish lamentation, my own fault, I misjudged the closeness of our friend group and overestimated how much I meant to them. Looking back we were probably never as close as I wanted us to be to eachother. Sometimes I get aches deep in my chest and stomach, it's emotional but feels so physical, it hits for days if not weeks and I want to do nothing but shatter into a million pieces, I hate being forgotten. Sometimes I conjure up in my head some imaginary person who loves me stroking my cheek with their hand, though I've never experienced that I can feel it so clearly, it's so warm and soft that I burst into tears at just the thought, but it comforts me anyways.
You can post advice ITT but I kinda just want to hear your loneliness stories, so I don't feel as, yknow, alone.
Last year until March of this year I was crazy to go out with as many women as I could, I believe I had about 20 to 30 dates with 7 or 10 women, as a way of making up for not having enjoyed my adolescence and for having gone out from a bad relationship of 3 years (which I broke up last year).
This ended up making me go through certain bad moments and it also hurt me because normally I either walked away from woman to woman and didn't try to give depth in any relationship I had with them.
It turned out that the only one I gave a certain depth to, we became just friends after a few disagreements.
After all this I have a feeling of emptiness and that I will never be able to have a relationship, I feel without confidence about, but it's not like I'm insecure, but a certainty that there are no real long relationships .