>Be me >5.5 or 6.5 out of 10, groomed, working out yet still no abs but at least I ain't fat >Not too bad but also not too good at socializing >Her, 10\10 and she probably knows it, but she ain't a bitch or a bimbo as far as I know >Wanna ask her out >She goin' to a trip in Spain with her best friend >Her best friend is also a really close friend of mine >Thinking of asking her out right before the trip so our mutual friend will talk her into dating me during the trip
Also, never dated/kissed before. (I'm 18)
InB4 "HAHA U BETA KEK" shut the fuck up with that nonsense.
What do you think /adv/, should I wait for AFTER the trip without the mutual friend's help? Also worried she'd stop hanging out with us (us = group of 3 including me, her best female friend and another dude). When she's around, she makes me feel... Amazing. As if I have no anxiety or depression. I feel like another person, and a confident one at it.
Back when we were still in high school, I got kicked to another class for reasons I won't specify. Every day I suffered intense anxiety, because the new class was a bunch of stack ups who wouldn't let me join. I tried bonding actively but they never accepted me in. Only a handful of people there made me comfortable. Two nice dudes (one of em barely showed up sadly and the other had permanent friends), and the other person who made me feel good and even amazing to be around with - was her. Every time I talked to her, I finally felt as if I'm accepted. At least by her. Every day I got to converse with her more than a minute was considered a good day.
(I have no friends issues, I have many. The problem was during class or when my regular friends weren't around during the breaks)
I´m almost 19 and I haven´t ever been in a relationship or kissed a girl. Every time I´ve tried they ignored me or avoid it. I´m skinny and my face is ok, but I´m getting bald. For some reason today I´ve had that strong feeling of fear of dying alone, because all my friends have a relation and a good job and I´m stucked in my life. I´m not asking of how to flirt with girls, but just wants to know how to get away that feeling.
So I've been thinking of trying weed again, but after doing more research and reflecting on some negative experiences, I'm not sure if I should, or how I should go about it if I am going to smoke again.
I've had two bad experiences with weed. At first I felt pretty well. A very bodily high both times. Sensations felt heightened, forces pulling at my body. But after a while a negative thought would enter my head and I'd get stuck in a spiral of racing, negative thoughts. I would get extremely self-conscious and feel like I would never get out of this situation. I'm pretty sure I smoked some kind of sativa those times and quite a lot of it too. Having said that, I've had postive experiences where I just smoked on my own, and only smoked a little bit.
I could attribute these experiences to just having smoked too much, or sativa not being my thing, but I'm wondering if weed is right for me in the first place.
I'm mentally stable except for a slight anxiety problem and occasional periods where I lack motivation for things. For a while I was scared of the idea of psychosis and schizophrenia, but I don't have any reason to believe I'm genitically predisposed to it.
So I'm just wondering how people with similar experiences or reactions have delt with this and whether there are any things I should keep in mind if I do try weed again.
relationship autist here
what happens if I confess my feelings to a grill(she's from my class), can anything good come out of it or is it a spergy thing to do?
I've really liked her for 3ish years but it's never escalated to anything more than joking around and talking a few times a day, I'd hardly even say we're friends.
Alright guys so I need some advice. I'm currently 1.5 years into my major at a community college. They now have a bachelor's program in cyber security. I tried engineering but failed. This means I only have something like 65 credits left in my degree to get a bachelor's. Right now my grades aren't the strongest but I'm working on them. I really want to go into the military and it has always been a dream of mine. I'm trying to decide what to do and which plan to take. Plan A is to finish college where I'm at now in 2.5 years and do the reserves while in. Get some military experience and finish college at the same time. Plan B is to somehow go to the university here and join the ROTC and get in that way. Problem is I don't have enough money to attend the university and my profile is not strong enough to win a scholarship. I have to work in order to pay for stuff. I'm currently working in retail and I have just feeling so trapped these last few months. Plan C is to go active duty and then come out and finish a degree from the gi bill. Do anyone have any advice on what I should do?
I just bought a visa card for the steam sale. I go to register it on the register site on the back of the card. I register it fine and it says it is available for online purchases. I try to use it on steam and it gets denied. I tried to use it on paypal and it got denied. What do i do? I have emailed the card issuers and visa about the problem. What can I do anons? It had a lot of money on it. The help line leads to a bot.
So my friends birthday is Sunday and he really wants to go Karaoke. All my friends agreed and i've said i'd come. I can't sing for shit and if it was just me him and our three main friends all would be good.
But he's invited a bunch of people he knows (of course) so now i'm going to be singing in front of 10 strangers...and i'm terrified.
I get alot of free time at work and I was is it possible to learn another language without having to vocalise it? I know that sounds silly but I'll fix the vocalisation some other time
Also whats the best way? I've seen people advertising apps and such. Maybe I can learn via youtube?
I'm interested in French, Russian, Chinese, German and Spanish. I'm afraid of Russian and Chinese because of the moonrunes. Thought that might be pertinent