Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ: >Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>? >What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do? >How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, fart guy, platonic cuddling guy
I am in a relationship with a girl for a couple years now. We only kind-of share similar interests.
But her pussy is perfect to me. I am not talking about sex. I mean literally her pussy. The shape, size, texture, thickness, scent, etc are all exactly to my preference. I am certain that objectively hers is the best pussy I will ever be able to enjoy.
So naturally I have a strong desire to stay in the relationship. This means that I am willing to put up with a lot of things from her that I wouldn't have if her pussy was different. I have had other girlfriends with various pussy shapes and sizes, but none of them had triggered such desire in me. I (maybe unfairly) would scrutinize their character harsher to make up for their less than phenomenal pussies.
There were times where I wanted to push my point further (in an argument or something), but I backed off when I thought about her pussy. My mind would race to the worst possible outcome of the situation, one where we break up and I lose her pussy. Seriously I receive an actual visual image in my mind about how perfect her pussy is, and I end up ceding the argument. I haven't actually ever told her that her pussy won those arguments, and I'm not sure that I ever should.
I'm wondering if this is normal behavior, and if it is fair to my girlfriend to essentially cherish her pussy more than the rest of her. Also I am concerned that our relationship would have ended already had her pussy looked even a bit different.
Hey everyone, I need some /adv/. I have a pretty bad procrastination problem and its only gotten worse over time. Anything I don't feel motivated to do and takes a moderate amount of thinking or work I put it aside and aside and aside again until it's too late to do it anymore. And even if I do start doing it, I catch myself day dreaming or going to websites on my computer without realizing it. So much so that I realized I've been doing it while trying to write this post.
I have a girlfriend now and I care for her quite a bit, so I don't want to disappoint her. I don't want to be a failure. But this procrastination is effecting my school work. Instead of being a 3.5 GPA student who passes classes just fine, I'm a struggling 2.5 GPA student who is worried if he'll be able to make it through college. Instead of being neat and tidy, I am a disorganized slob. Instead of participating in my hobby, I always put it aside and tell myself "I'll do it later" or say "Gosh, this is too hard, I'll look at it again tomorrow." Instead of trying to accomplish one of my life goals, learning a second language, I don't even do my homework in that class or study vocabulary because I'm so damn lazy. Its starting to make me hate myself. And I feel like if I don't get this under control I'm gonna start failing at life in general, become a failure. I wouldn't be able to provide for my girlfriend and she'd probably lose interest in me. I wouldn't be able to rely on my family because they're struggling themselves. I'd be left to the wolves with no reason to live. Extreme? Probably. But its an honest fear of mine.
So, anons who have this problem/have overcome it, how do you work on it/how did you solve it? Thanks friends!
I have a meeting at the police station on Monday. I also have severe panic disorder. Usually I deal with it by taking anti-anxiety meds but I don't want to look drugged when speaking to officers. What do?
I won't skirt around the issue, I beat my ex-girlfriend and before anyone starts whining, I don't really give a shit. She cheated on me with some other guy, I found out, broke up and then I beat them both up when I had the opportunity to do so. There will be no legal consequences for this, the other guy is afraid of me and my ex-girlfriend is now apparently trying to get back together with me.
Granted, I did vent quite a bit of rage when I beat them up and that's helped me a lot in moving on, and I don't really feel anything about her anymore, but I honestly have no idea how to make her go away, short of another beating.
No, I'm not afraid of her going to the police, the police is corrupt as hell and I've got family there, so I wouldn't even get a slap on the wrist. Joys of living in Eastern Europe.
>tfw going through some real, life-threatening shit >instead of sympathizing and seeing where I'm coming from, older brother just says "HURR DURR EVERYBODY GOES THROUGH BAD TIMES, JUST GET OVER IT" as if me and my situation doesn't matter
Alright /adv/ I don't know if anyone can help me out here but I need some input. So I have sole and physical custody of my son... His mom didn't show up to court so it was defaulted to me. She moved to do and is coming to visit her daughters family next week. She asked if she could have our son while she's here. Visitation was dismissed so she doesn't have anything per court order. My family doesn't want me to let her visit him.... Now he's old enough to remember things now and I don't want him to remember me not letting him see his mom. She also asked if she could keep him overnight. My parents don't agree to it because they think she might try to hurt him and blame it on me. Anyone has gone through this situation? Also, forgot to mentioned she's staying at the parents of the dude she cheated on me with and got pregnant by.... While we were divorced.