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I can't take the ridicule and people's false perceptions of me anymore. Since I can't change their opinion of me, and people keep implying that I am a burden on society, I've decided to rid myself of the gene pool. I'm sure many of you will applaud this decision. Working on a suicide note, some last projects, etc., which will probably fall on deaf ears, but whatevs. I suppose what I'm asking of you guys is some help in discovering where exactly I went wrong or what I stand accused of, so I can make an attempt to clarify any misconception and partially-exonerate myself. I know I've fucked up many times but, somewhere along the line, shit got twisted around, blown out-of-proportion, and taken out-of-context. I am but a humble librarian with a drug problem and slew of mental health ailments who is trying to right various wrongs in vain. If there is no salvation, fear not, I will be gone soon. Until I finally bid thee adieu, however, please help a dying man gain some closure.
We can do nothing to tell you what you did wrong without knowing who you are, what you've "done", etcetera.
Telling us you're gonna kill yourself for feeling like a failure is just us going "okay, and?" Because lots of people feel like they've failed at one point or another, and then go on living and find out what they thought was terrible was really kinda trivial in the long run.
You're probably young, so you're trying to run away from your problems instead of fixing them, and suicide is the quickest, easiest answer to make your temporary problems go away forever - but then you don't get to experience any more positives, or have any more joy in life, cause life is over. So... whatever, do what you want anon. Not like we could stop you.
Why do you care about what people think? Do they pay your bills or assume control of your body, feeling what you feel, experiencing what you do or sharing your memories? Because if any of these is answered with a no, I don't think you really need to care that much. Dying won't give you closure. Living and changing will.
It's fine. Someone will do their research and avenge me after I'm gone. Wish you fuckers could've been of greater assistance, but I've dug my own grave.
I dunno man, I've done my best to confess all my sins. I can't remember everything, but it gradually gets thrown in my face until I am drowning in it. I have tried my earnest to change my ways, but people misconstrue what I'm about. I have also made desperate pleas for help, but am usually encouraged to "Do it, faggot", so in short time I intend to. This is cyber-bullying taken to another level.
Anyone here recovered from crazy? How do you recover from crazy? Are you normal people now?
>>18273632 >shitting on my floor
Go to a psych ward, see a shrink, don't fall for the pharmaceutical jew
I went full on batshit from about 18 - 20yrs old. I think back to that time and struggle to believe it actually happened. I'm now approaching 30.
I suppose I just grew up. I got a job, gained more structure in my life, ended any toxic relationships I had and realised that it was okay to be mad or upset about something, but it was also important to focus on the bigger picture. When you have responsibilities and a structure, it's really hard to spend a lot of time obsessing with the negative things which influence low mood. I still struggle with my mood. I'm a negative person and I seem to live my life between "okay" and "this is shit", but I can manage. I consider myself a realist. I'm easily threatened, I don't think very highly of myself and I have anger issues. I work hard to try and control this, so those around me are not affected. Medication is a great option for some people. I often wonder if SSRI's might improve my mood...but I think I'd struggle to stick to the treatment long enough to see whether it would work. I tend to just focus on eating healthily, going to the gym and spending as much time outside as possible. Counselling can work as well, and sometimes there's no need to pay someone to listen. CBT books are widely available and can really help you gain an understanding of your thought processes and how changing them even a tiny bit, can be beneficial.
That's great and an inspiration, but please tell me you meant "sitting" on the floor.
if ur fucked in the head a psych ward alone isn't gonna save you. they will just give you medication that probably wont work. look into long term partial hospitalizations or residential programs. they probably wont help either tho but thats ur best bet. all else fails just kill urself
What's the ideal thinness for a woman?
I hear sometimes that women are 'too' thin and don't have curves/are too bony, and then I hear about women being slightly too pudgy and it would be better if they lost 10 or so pounds
Could someone post a pic of the sweet spot? What's the non-plastic surgery ideal? I can't afford to get butt implants and fat grafting to my hips so that they become round, they are naturally square.
I like thin to thiq just like ever man does. Once a girl looks anorexic and too grossly thin then that is the line. Thigh gap is ideal for looks, but for actual sex I like more thiqness, some nice big titties and wide hips and some weight on me when she rides. Sex with skinny qts is terrible.
Skinny wifey to show off at partirs
Thiq mistress to actually get your rocks off
ya, that doesnt happen
if you understood how rarely guys get affection from women you would know why none of them spurn it
Around this cosplayer's body
There's really no such thing as too thin unless you're clinically underweight. Vice versa, too - if you're overweight then fuck no. It's not complicated.
Lucoa is nice
My girlfriend and i are both virgins We don't lewd that much, but today i wanted to lose my virginity. However i could not get hard. She also tried to get me off but she could not.
I don't have an erectile disfunction as far as i know, and she is not ugly at all. Why does this even happen?
Oddly enough i get hard when she does non-lewd stuff such as kissing me or telling me that she loves me. A condom was not involved, and during this specific situation i was "half hard" so to speak, but not hard enough
You're a lucky guy, but probably this
sounds like nerves then. you're able ot get an erection easily but hwen it came to losing your virginity you got nervous.
also a possibility
Thanks for the advice so far!
can a sex addict ever settle down for an asexual
my city is not so good for finding doctors. everytime i call they tell me it will be several months and refuse to schedule one so far ahead.
>>18273888 > i wouldn't equate sex to violence at all, well maybe sometimes with consent and a safeword.
For some reason, that line brightened my day.
Second, this probably isn't going to work for either of you. You both want different things. I know you probably love him, but love just doesn't make a relationship work. Neither of you are going to be happy in the long term.
And that crack about having to control his feelings of violence... fuck, what a whiny, asshole thing to say. He's not the only one that wants to lash out at other people, and most of us manage to keep that shit together because we don't actually want to hurt others, not because of some expectation others have for our behavior.
i'm afraid we were better as friends :(
he doesn't really want to go back to being friends though
i might have to scorch the earth
>>18273793 >can two people who want complete opposite things, and this thing is one of the cornerstones of a relationship, work out?
I know exactly what that feels like. It sucks. I broke up with literally the best girl I've ever been with because we wanted different things in our lives. Loving each other just didn't change the fact that one of us getting what we wanted meant the other wouldn't.
I'll be honest, I don't really get how an asexual committed relationship works. My brain just doesn't work that way. But what exactly is the difference between that and just being friends? I mean, my romantic relationships are basically friendship + physical intimacy. Take away the physical intimacy, and all I have is a really close friend. Although I admittedly suck at relationships, so maybe I'm the one that's wrong.
Also, and I don't want to get too deep, or presume too much, but if this doesn't work out, don't let it fuck with you too much. I know because of my background, it took forever for me to feel like love was real, and even longer to feel like I was worth being loved. And break ups just kind of reinforced that belief, and the shitty behavior that came with it. I just hope that doesn't happen to you.
I live in a state with legalized weed and my dog at a 10mg tablet. Panicked, I called the ASPCA poison control hotline, and they said that my dog would be fine.
My question is, are they going to call the cops? Is this animal abuse? Did I done fuck up or is not a big deal?
They charged me a consultation fee and took my mailing address. Halp?
just because your dog ate something he shouldnt doesnt mean youre going to jail. weed is legal in your state. just like chocolate is, if your dog eats chocolate do you go to jail? if they say your dog is fine and they just hung up, then theyre not going to do anything. why would they even care, it was just an accident. dont worry about it.
i'm glad i didn't stop it.
You're all awful people and deserve global thermonuclear war.
What are some tips for being a good kisser? I've started dating again after being in a long term relationship. However, I got so used to the way me and the bf kissed that I'm not sure how to do it with other people. Advice from both men and women is welcome
bumping because I suck at kissing.
kissing is mad wack, just bite the neck
Move your lips. Kiss theirs. Sometimes, lick their lower lip a little with your tongue.
People kiss differently, there's no step-by-step instruction to give you on how to kiss. Why don't you just kiss your new person like you kissed your old boyfriend? I don't see how that would be a problem.
Dont kiss too hard, that doesnt feel good
Dont use too much tongue, match the amount of their tongue with your tongue
Dont have your lips be loose and do nothing, makes it feel like you're not into it
Be soft with your lips, it should come naturally
Kissing is more of a question of what not to do than what to do. As long as you stay relaxed and keep your kisses gentle then your body should find the rhythm. That being said, changing up your kisses while making out is fine too. Going from soft and passionate to fast and lustful is fine as long as it isnt just one the whole time.
It's been a few years since me and the ex broke up and this guy I've started seeing is the first person I've had feelings for since then. I think I just want our first kiss to be really good and not awkward or anything.
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I'm 21, and I really like a girl who is 17. Is this bad? I think she's kind of into me too. I really think we could have a lasting relationship together.
We've know each other for like, six years, but I haven't been attracted to her all that time.
This guy gets it. I might have been able to skate the kidnapping charge if I could prove my ignorance(she had a fake ID that her dad got her for gambling that I knew about but I think it said she was like 22 when she was telling me she was 19), but even with that, there's no way I'd get out of a cp/statutory rape charge. Juries just don't care about the circumstance once you've "crossed that line". Lowkey really lucky she wanted to wait.
>>18273607 >>18273558 >>18273564
Good I don't live in the "COUNTRY OF FREEDOM".
Who the fuck cares what people think and she is not 15 or 12, she is soon gonna be 18!!!!!!!!
Ah whatever, you want to hear me saying "don't go for her", right?
As I understand it, it's really true in this case. All they have to prove is that she was underage and you fucked her, because she can't legally consent.
. Ethically, there's zero problem with what she did. She was willing and complicit (I'm intentionally avoiding the legal baggage that comes with "consent," which people are rarely able to separate when using the word in other contexts), and according to his story, he respected her as an equal and never coerced her in any way.
Legally, he's fucked. This is an open-and-shut case of kidnapping. If her parents had pressed charges, he would be in prison. If they had been sexting, she would have been guilty of producing child pornography with intent to distribute, and he would have been guilty of possession. If they'd had sex, he would be guilty of statutory rape, and possibly a handful of other charges. If there were even the slightest shred of evidence, it's unlikely that he could have gone to court and come through without being forced to register as a sex offender, even if he weren't sent to prison.
The fact of the matter is that a great many laws in the US have no basis reality. They're proposed and voted on by politicians seeking to show that they care about whatever hysteria is currently sweeping through the populace, enforced by law enforcement agencies desperate to rationalize their continued existence, and adjudicated by a court system that has forgotten the difference between justice and legality.
Here's your red pill for the day if you still believe in the totalitarian fairy tale that near-absolute government power is the only way to keep you safe:
What is the fastest way to lose weight with no excercise, I dont care if its dangerous/unhealthy. I'm around 6ft and 210 pounds, I would like to lose around 10 pounds in about 4 or 5 weeks, I know it's unlikely.
That's a very reasonable amount of weight to lose in that timeframe. Since you probably don't have much muscle, eating like 1500cals total for the next few weeks might do it. Try to cut down on drinking too much of anything, and stick to water.
>no exercise Good luck, senpai. Eating better is great, but it only does so much. At best, you'll put yourself on a starvation diet, lose the weight with great struggle, and then rebound and pick it all back up. Cut out some shit, cut out some soda, replace it with healthier food and water, and exercise. You don't need anything too strenuous, though if you start something intensive and stick with it you can shape up very quickly.
Nigger, I live a relatively healthy lifestyle, i don't drink much soda at all, and am vegetarian.
Bullshit you do. People who live a 'relatively healthy lifestyle' aren't 210 pounds.
I don't care how slow your metabolism is, if you're not eating junk, you must be eating an absurd amount of it. But I strongly suspect you're not being completely honest and you're eating junk.
>>18274017 >healthy lifestyle >no exercise
Not that healthy.
A while ago I was with a girl. I am generally pretty insightful into the people's psyche, and I suspected her of being not necessarily unfaithful, but of liking somebody else. All friends said it can't be true, that she's not "like that". Her sister said she'll never talk to her if she did that to me. I didn't wanna believe it, but we broke off. She told me it was because of this and that, but I always knew it was about that other guy.
Never wanted to believe it.
Today it's been confirmed it was true all along.
How do I, basically, not go on a murder spree? I'm drunk and smoked to all shit.
She lied all, me, lied me to my very face. In my face she told she can't be in a relationship because this and that. And now this?