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Virgin and ugly after 30
How do I avoid kms? I think the only thing keeping me from doing it is the fact that I'm a coward.
I can't believe it. I can't. I did everything right. I worked on myself, I studied, I got a good job. It's all worthless anyway, I'm over 30 and I still didn't have the most important experiencies a human being can have. No intimacy. No laying in bed together.
People half my age are having sex and fun every day. Why do I have to keep on waiting? What is the point of living like this? Everything is a waste of time when you're ugly. Should have done when I was 10 and realized I was ugly. I don't know how I still function.
You're correct but modern society has been engineered so we become slaves to our biology
This is a trash normie board
I mean, do you honestly WANT to associate with people who reject you for such a petty reason?
I am 28 kv and I don't have that fear neither I constantly compare myself or thinking about how it would be to be in relationships and have a regular sex with a person you love. I enjoy my solitude.
I mumble a ton. How do you know when it is time to go to speech therapy? As a side note, I am unable to breathe out of my nose due to allergies.
Is there a cheap way around this?
1) stop mumbling, project your voice. speech therapy is a scam, just speak up and stop being a faggot.
2) allergies aren't real, water fast for 3-4 days and you will magically experience clear sinuses for months
Tattoo it on ur face foreheads u have allergies
Where should I get this tattooed on my body?
>dude weed lol
>the flag of a dead government run by rich elites trying to keep their economic system alive
The Civil War in America did not have a good side. Average people were swept up in yet another conflict between quarreling rich people.
Butt. So any girl that fucks you see the error that she is going to commit but can't turn back now.
this guy is pretty much on spot.
You could take the chance and tattoo "I'm immature" on your forehead.
Your forehead and above your ass along with cursive that reads "I love weeners"
Glad someone here understands that. I know the "rebel" flag has taken on a different meaning since the1860s, but it's still the creation of the same ilk is "dude, weed and freedom" tips are theoretically opposed to.
for Software development, is there still any companies in a high rate requires a degree to hire you no matter how Chady your portfolio is? Or this shit happens rarely?
This. I notice people with degrees tend to just have a superiority complex about it. Even if you are super capable they'll think less of you for not having a degree, especially because if they give you too much it feels like they wasted their time going to college.
it's quite possible to have a career in development without a degree, but yeah you'll be a lot more limited in your opportunities without one. i know plenty of people working in tech without degrees doing well enough for themselves, making ~$70k-130k, they're pretty satisfied where they're at but they're typically 30+ and been around in the industry for decades to get where they're at. meanwhile i'm 25 and i'm at six figures making more than most of them already with only 2 years of experience. the only people i know making more than me without degrees were in the military.
>>24977895 >yes anon we will hire you for not having a degree
Human resources see you resume before an actual employee, and they will not understand what's on your github
I know that employers for competitive companies or even just looking at competitive positions have to sift through a metric fuckton of resumes. It's just easier to check the ones that appear promising upfront, and no matter how you slice it, a degree implies promise. Not really the truth, but convenience and results are what matter in the real world.
I'd say having a beefy portfolio is good for a small position, and maybe down the line you can invest in a degree to climb higher.
Just get an interview somehow and leetcode, companies doesn't care about portfolio
I'm (F, 20) in love with one of my (M, 20s) managers at work...He's always so kind to me, and telling me how much he loves working with me and how great I'm doing. He's married with kids, but I learned today his marriage is failing. Do I have a chance?
I’m just saying, you’d only be a rebound because next to his wife you’re nothing. He has kids.
life never stops throwing tricky situations at any of us. good luck out there.
Might do you well to verify what he tells you. He could say he is leaving or in a bad place to sleep with you.
However, when he goes home or time off he’s committed to his wife and family and nothing is wrong.
Any spending time together off work?
have faith you’ll find someone better and available down the line
its friday night. why are you here?
>>24978246 >Implying redditors go outside
You know /r9k/ fags used to be mocked and made fun of for being isolated losers back in the day. Still ought to be. Go outside
I'm in the same boat pretty much.
I think I've realized that almost everyone is lonelier now, not just neets and outcast, its just normalfags hide it better with social media. No one wants to meet each other anymore, and I can't blame them, its hard and everyone's busy.
I am in a city that I don't know anyone. I lost all my ability to socialize as high school went on. Plus ugly.
I’m taking turns on a video am with this boy, it’s his turn…. I’m playing on my phone
I find giving other people advice therapeutic. And I find reading others' responses migraine-inducing. And the whole thing's really time-consuming...
Actually, you make a good point, why AM I here?
TWO girls in the last year have had butthole tats. Out of 5 i met and had sex with. One tattoo was a butterfly centered on the asshole. The other tattoo used the butthole as one of the eyes of a vampire looking creature's head.
Anyone else experiencing this phenomenon? Line in a big city in New Jersey for the record.
I see lots of negative shit on 4chan but what you guys all need is some positive reinforcement.
Examples of what to post here:
- some good quality/skills you have
- what achievements you made in the past years and how you improved yourself
- How you came out ontop of a certain situation
Also congratulate anons above you on their deeds (excluding me because it would be pretty gay to create a thread for anons to suck my dick)
How would you define "autistic" lmao. I haven't had many dates but I don't think I'm completely hopeless
Poor communication skills is all autism really is. As long as you're presentable in appearance, know how to carry conversations, and know how to escalate things (heavy emphasis on that, you need to be able to flirt and let your intentions be known) then you should be okay. Women like to be coy about what they want but they're usually just as horny as guys are. Teasing or hinting at things is pretty effective I've found, I've had women enjoy that and women just enjoy being absolutely upfront about wanting to have sex. It depends how much they like you I guess. They're still somewhat of a mystery to me but that's what I know at least
>>24978574 >women just enjoy being absolutely upfront about wanting to have sex. It
*Some women. They find confidence pretty sexy but some of them like being led along. Depends on the woman.
I'm autistic in the sense I have poor communications skills relatively and get hyperfocuses about certain tasks. Some girls find it hot, others don't. You just need to put yourself out there and see how things go.
>>24977948 >have a huge imagination
That is a major skill, being able to think outside of the box or express yourself meaningfully is very valuable. It's probably oke of the best things about humanity I'd say
Good luck anon. Your doing great
My dad is abusive and ruined the lives of all his children. This weekend he is driving me to a new city where I got a place to stay. It’s a 5h drive, and it’s nice of him (he is nice sometimes), but he knows he’ll never see me again. He’s completely accepted the fact that he was so terrible to me that we won’t have a relationship anymore. Should i say something? Should I tell him how much i hate him, do i insult him? Fuck am I supposed to say?
>>24978671 >tfw too ugly a child to have ever been molested by hot older women
No she’s a fat wrinkly gypsy and asking this question is retarded he’s like 7 years old
if your dad is as much of a prick as you say he is, then he won't care about what you have to say, and its too late for him to change anyways
you would only be saying it for your own benefit
if he's a spiteful person then he might take it as a challenge and do something to make your life more difficult in your ne place
regardless of your circumstances you should either consider putting a bullet in his head (if he let people molest your siblings), or just parting casually and never talking to him again
Say your goodbyes and leave. It's not rocket science. What is it with people wanting catharsis for every bad thing in life?
I think this Anon. But really only you know if it's worth it to say anything. If there's anything you want to get off your chest you feel you'd regret not saying, you know best.
Personally I tried the whole 9 yards with my father (reasoning with, insulting him, etc) before I sort of just gave up and departed casually. Last I saw him I just kept quiet while I loaded my boxes into the moving truck. Haven't said anything to him since really.
>Brother in law Who I've known for almost a decade just straight up died today at work
>Heart stopped, No breathing everything
>They brought him back but nows he's in a coma
>I feel nothing
Why do I feel nothing? He's like a brother to me but I have no emotion towards this.
In a coma? I mean there's still a chance, right? Even if it's less than 1%?
>>24978250 >15 minutes
... I hate to tell you this man, but brain cells without oxygen start to die after 5 minutes. After 15 minutes of no breathing or pulse, there is probably going to be some serious brain damage. If he does bounce back, I sincerely doubt he will be the same person. I'm very sorry
When something this big happens this suddenly, it often doesn't feel real. It'll probably hit you down the road, when it sinks in that your day to day life will be different now and it's not just "a day where I don't see my brother in law." eg when you see a joke you'd usually send him but remember you can't, etc.
Since he's in a coma and you don't yet know if he's dead, brain damaged, fine, or what, it's also hard to commit to an emotion, your brain is probably protecting you until you know what you're actually dealing with here, since any scenario will be a massive thing to deal with.
Not all people see death the same way.
Better than getting stabbed by some nig over a $4.00 muffin