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hey 4chan, im kinda confused about my life right now, i mean i feel happy at the moment but usually im depressed but any ways ive have been streaed out about ALOT of personal shit, like moving to orange county, (i fucking hate it here) and moving schools every year sience 5th grade, i know it sounds stupid but i need help, im seeimg a theropist, dosint seem to help, ive been builed my entire life (kinda got over that in 4th grade though) and my dad is losing his job, the same one he has been working at for 35 FUCKING YEARS beacons some ass hole didint get the job that my dad got. i have wanted to kill myself in the past but im to much of a pussy and dont want to. so thats out. and my mom hasn't had a house for abotu 6 months (mainly because we can barely live here) and we move alot. i've been stressed, i know i sound like a pussy but whatever. oh and apparently i have a form of autism? idk i've been told that by A SHIT lod of people. im also in special ed, but some autistic people say im not so. i was also hit in the head with a shovel full of wet sand when i was 3, that probably has something to do with it, so yeah. i guess that's it? idk im just confused and stressed. (picture has nothing to do with it)ok...
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>No longer living with ex
>He makes decent money ( About 1400 a month )
>Living with mom and he gives 100 every 2 weeks
>Barely enough for food
>20 goes to mom as 'rent'

Our rent was about 756, and total of bills about be about 100, tops. We did a calculation and we SHOULD have about 300, at least, for food and stuff for the month. We agreed we'd do no court and he'd pay me the 100 every 2 weeks, he'd take our son with him for the weekend and lately, he's been paying me late and not taking his son. He has another job and makes more but refuses to give me a penny more...he gave me 160 and he's saying 60 counts for NEXT 'allowance'. He's 2 months behind on rent which he JUST paid off and says it's the reason why he's late on paying me. Tells me the reason he has no money is because I spent $100 extra on his b-day about 5 months ago which he apparently hasn't recovered and lead to his debt...but he's ALWAYS been behind on rent and never pays things on time.

Should I just take him to court? Maybe he'll learn how to handle his money better and be responsible with paying things on time...plus 100 barely covers food and our son needs new clothes and other expenses.
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ITT: Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

No.18831588 View ViewReplyOriginalReport
GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
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What could've been?

No.18831541 View ViewReplyOriginalReport
I know it's pointless to speculate on this stuff, but I guess emptying it out helps.

I was raised in a catholic home with an extremely protective mother (and complicit father), who still is, despite the fact I'm 23. she made me too shy, scared to even go out on my own or do anything besides 'innocent' things in fear of getting in trouble, facing punishment and 'doing the wrong thing'.

while I guess it seemed ok at the time, I'm now realising I probably missed out on a lot of freedom and fun stuff teens get up to.

Maybe it's stupid to think like this but I wonder if I'd be 'happier' or a different person if I maybe had a less restrictive upbringing.

I also went to an all high boys school which probably severely affected my development in regards to girls (despite being good looking) and didn't lose my virginity until 21.

now I feel like just sleeping around a lot and doing stupid, free, fun things to make up for what I didn't do when I was younger. i didnt really do all that much maybe getting drunk at parties but i still always played the 'good boy' role. is this is a bad way of thinking? and any advice/thoughts?

thanks
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
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No.18831790 View ViewReplyOriginalReport
>girl likes me
>fuck it all up by being too raunchy

ive done this like 5 times whats my fucking problem
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Standing Up for Myself

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I stand up for everyone except for myself. When someone else is being harassed I naturally stand up for them and stand my ground if confronted, but when somebody fucks with me I generally don't say anything and become a mentally slow beta.

Does anyone here have experience with this? Tell me how you improved or how I could improve.
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My stalker, HecateBast aka Melanie Durant has been harassing me, stealing my online identities, and abusing me in various ways *in real life* for YEARS now. It's all very convoluted to say the least…I've been in an *actual legal battle* with this one that has spanned the past couple of years, and it hasn't been a joke, or just silly internet stalking. She made some *very* heavy false allegations against me that were thankfully dismissed in court after I worked with a Detective Cop for *8 months* to prove my own innocence, after my civil liberties had been violated multiple times by being falsely arrested based on her completely fabricated Facebook pages (sounds like the stuff right out of a Lifetime film,..but it's sadly all true and if need be I can absolutely prove that. I have statements from the detective that my other half & I worked with. I also have scans of the restraining order that was *absolutely taken out on her*. Feel free to inbox me.) All of this started because I was seeing her ex (who broke up with her 7 years ago, it's time to move on- and it should be said that he despises her). We haven't been together in over 2 years, but we are still good friends and she persists. She has been perfecting her trolldom for years, she knows how to fake screenshots, and she creates fake profiles AS MYSELF on facebook, using them in attempt to ruin my reputation. More details on that below. There is no way for me to even message any of her accounts because she has me blocked on most of them. In the past, she has even created fake warrants for my arrest in attempt to terrorise me. One of the times she attempted to have me arrested was on my daughter's second birthday. It was NOT a coincidence. This person is incredibly disturbed and envious to an extent that I cannot put into words.
Here is a pic of me so you can have another better understanding as to why she has been assaulting me.
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Hey denizens of /adv/...

Adulthood hasn't been good for my self-esteem.
I lost weight - 50 pounds - and am for the first time in my life almost skinny! I wish I was excited but...I honestly feel worst than ever about myself because I'm beginning to realize that I'm genuinely one of the ugliest people, it wasn't just my weight. I know it because of various experiences and my camera's phone.

I did this experiment: I stood in the same spot, comparing what I saw in the mirror versus the cam.

>cam: large, bulbous features with gigantic nose, cheeks, and forward jaw, deathly pale, dark shadows beneath my eyes, extremely rough, pitted skin (despite me never getting acne scars like that and always taking care of my skin). Just extremely tired and unhealthy looking. 2/10?
>mirror: warm lighting, smooth, soft-looking, plump skin, small, balanced features, pretty decent eyes
>when I point the camera at the mirror instead I look much better than cam alone, though the sunken eyes+pale tone is still present

Yes, I have posted a pic on /soc/ and it was rated 7-8...and now I think I must have posted a flattering image? And when I compared the ones I posted versus the other gross I sometimes take, I realize that I did post some decent, maybe unintentionally deceitful ones and that all the ratings were practically lies, that I normally look like shit on camera...and now I don't want to go outside again.

Anyway...I've found some new friends recently. I'm no longer that lonely. Still...a part of me still feels down because I don't know if I'll ever not be a KHV. I'm 22 and I feel...gross, and that the mirror's lying to me. And I realize that no matter what people tell me about my appearance I won't change my mind. So I won't post a pic.

What I'm asking is that when there's a solid chance that you're far uglier than most other people of any age, how are you supposed to reconcile your life? How do you just let it go? Don't try to argue with me. I'm asking this seriously.
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I lost my virginity last night and I cannot fucking forgive myself. I've only been dating the guy for about two months and after wanting to wait for marriage my entire life I just gave it up because my hormones got the best of me. Was raised Christian and my parents really drove home that this was the worst thing I could do. Now I've disappointed God, my parents, and myself. I am fucking ruined and I don't know what to do.
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