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I don't understand this place anymore. I mean it was always kind of shit but there was usually break periods where something stupid or funny would get posted.
these days all the popular boards argue about bullshit for entire days and complain about things that they supposedly hate but watch or read anyway. Then 2011 ended, the election happened and everybody is constantly at each others throats.
What's the point? I can't deal with the chan lifestyle anymore. It stresses me out to no end. I used to love this place.
Not sure where to post this so if I'm on the wrong board sorry.
Does anyone else feel like this?
For me, I first noticed a massive culture change when "u mad" became a meme.
It immediately cut off all further discussion or exchange of new ideas and opinions. Instead of arguing a point or adding any unique perspective, all anyone immediately did when their point was challenged is respond with "u mad".
How long you've been on 4chan? Cause that's relatively old.
Pretty much this, except that the problem isn't the users, it's the moderation. Actual discussion threads that they don't like get deleted, while pepes and shitposting are allowed to take over everything. There was a large culture shift in the userbase around 2009-2011 when 4chan became far more conservative (presumably as a reaction to mainstream opinion turning more liberal), but the things that actually killed killed it were stormfaggotry and gamergate, which were amplified by shitty mods that don't understand the Streisand Effect instead of being allowed to quietly run their course.
Me too. That's why it sounded so familiar lol.
>New chick shows up at work
>Asks me if I have a girlfriend in the evening
>I say no
>She says I must be a virgin then
>I ask if she's fucking joking right now
>She says well I could be gay too
Can I sue?
Ask how loose she is? Can you not bantz?
Recording someone without their knowledge isn't permissible in court in most places I'm pretty sure. Your work would sooner fire the creep secretly recording people than the coworker who allegedly bantz.
Didn't read thread but she wants your dick. Throw the banter back in her face and stop being an overly sensitive beta
Hahahaha thin skinned pussy. I see your balls still havent droped.
Right? Gurm set him up for an easy punchline, and carved out a path between her legs. And the shit bird comes here asking for legal advice!!!
You place far too much trust in the employer. You have to take matters into your own hands, and that means presenting a preponderance of evidence.
Sorry OP, there was another post that confused me. I initially thought you were a guy.
So I asked a girl from my class out. We exchanged numbers. Now, I want to text her to take her to see a movie; however, I don't know If I even passed the class we were both in and grades only go up on Tuesday. It would be weird to even try dating a girl who will be a class above you if I fail a class (although I'm relatively confident about passing it. I'm just not 100% sure).
Should I wait til Tuesday when the grades are available or should I text her today/tomorrow to go out sometime this week? I understand that one/two days don't make much difference but I just want to know how others would act based on my situation with class.
>>18273697 >Fail class >Ask her to tutor you >Give her the D
>>18273712 >why would it?
I guess I'm just insecure.
That's precisely what my friend told me to do. But I don't think he was serious.
You're overthinking it anon
youre defo overthinking it. if she likes you, it doesnt matter if youre a class below her or whatever, she probably wont even think about the possibility or care. and if she does care she's not worth it anyway bc that'd be a lot of bullshit
>>18273801 >I guess I'm just insecure.
Sorry bro, but that's pretty much it. Just don't mind the result, this and that are two diametrically different things.
Anyone here a waiter? I got a job at O'Charleys, and I was wondering what should I be expecting on an average day for tips? I'm in a pretty white area in knoxville, and there is cash in the area. Thoughts on this?
Also, tips on being a new server?
impossible to say because every restaurant and location and timeframe is different. weekends tend ot do better htan weekdays for instance.
regardless the only way you'll really find out is by actually counting your tips. good luck man
Yeah, I've had a lot of people saying that's there's really no way to get an idea. I've been sleeping on my friends couch for 3 weeks though and it's time for me to make a move. Trying to figure out if I'll be able to afford rent and food at the same time
Is there a way to lose most of my fat from my thighs and belly in like 6 weeks?
I don't want to build muscle just lose fat.
Idc if the way is unhealthy or something I dont want to feel insecure on Summer
dieting. cant guarantee it'll be ready in time for summer, but better late than never.
find out how many calories you burn a day (google TDEE calculator) then eat at least 500 less.
if you also do some exercise like running and jogging it will speed it up. if you do some light muscle work outs it will also make sure your fat is burned first instead of your muscle.
You will lose weight overall at the rate of about 2lbs per week (so 12 lbs overall) if you eat at a 500 calorie deficit. Use myfitnesspal.
New to vaping, running into some issues. Pic below is the mod I got (smok alien 220w) and the spot is what appears when I use the tissue as a filter. I also swab the inside of the mouth piece and the liquid is the same color as it is on the tissue. This isn't supposed to happen, right? It burns my throat, makes me cough, and I get some of the juice in my mouth. The setting on pic is how I run it. I've tried turning up the watts, tightening all the components, nothing seems to help. Coil is a baby t8 and I'm using Naked ejuice. Any idea how I can fix this?
How much nic, pg and vg?
Have you tried multiple coils? Is your box leaking when you let it sit for a few hours/overnight? The coils and top piece need to be on damn tight or you'll get splash.
Quick info, as I was writing this post I saw that the q2 coil has an ohm best use (?) Not sure of the correct terminology, of .4 (the t8 has one of .15) so imma switch it out and see if it helps.
3mg on the current juice. Is the fix as simple as getting a new coil then? Or would I need a new mod?
There is a crackle but not sure if it's the normal sounds or something out of the ordinary. It's not spitting back boiling juice but Im definitely getting some of the residue that sits on the inside of the mouthpiece, which I read online should be more clearer than what it looks like, but they might of been misinformed.
3mg Nic, 70vg/30pg. Tried the baby-q2 and baby-t8 (current), it was leaking when I first got it a couple days ago but I tightened everything up and it stopped leaking.
Scratch that, I do feel little hot beads on my tongue every now and then
just a new coil, try a .5 and work back up to something lower
Are you vaping at a wattage thats between the 'best' range? It should say on the coil itself what the optimal range is.
I met her at work two or three months ago and I fell in love. I've been pretty clear with my intentions and I think she probably knows I'm romantically interested. The thing is, I'm almost sure these feelings are not reciprocated. I don't think she avoids me or dislikes company, but I've noticed very few signs of genuine interest, and I'm always the one inviting her to everything. Sure, she's shy, not very outgoing and doesn't has many male friends, but overall I think things are looking pretty hopeless...I could provide more details but long story short, a month ago she made it kind of clear that she wasn't particularly interested in a relationship with me.
But the thing is, it's been a long time since I last felt like this for a girl. Call it oneitis/limerence if you want, but I can't stop thinking about her. Is it a bad idea to casually tell her that I like her? I already "accepted" rejection, so that's not a problem. I think I would be more at ease if I could hear a "no" from her mouth, to drown every last bit of hope I possibly could have. It's either that or wait it out until my feelings for her start dwindling.
Sounds like you got it mostly figured out - you just need to put it into practice. Glad to help, ive been in that situation countless times and it fucking sucks being a nice dude and not knowing why women dont want you back. Btw i should note that the experience i wrote about was like legit 2 weeks ago so this is all very new to me also. I judt figured having a fresh example of this working would help convince you what im saying is true because it certainly was a massive leap of faith for me. Its going against all my nice guy insticts but now that ive seen a complete 180 with this girl and shes lusting me more than im lusting her i can finally see the light and boy is it fucking great. I wish i learned this in highschool and not nearly a decade later.
One thing i do need to note is that as a male you still need to initiate the initial conversation/encounter/ect. Thats our job, to go around fucking anything that interests us. However when our advances arent met, keep it moving - display that, as you perfectly said, have other baskets to put your eggs in. If she can be potentially attracted to you, she will be once you effectively tell her no. Women are not used to being told no to sexual advances - men fuck anything that move and be passed up on is basically the ultimate insult to their ego - and why only then they will try to chase and prove themselves to you.
And if she doesnt chase, move on. Hold the bluff. Operate as if you have unlimited baskets to spread your seeds in, even if in reality you have just that one. Never second guess, she should always be the one second guessing and being left wondering.
Your only duty is to your genetic success. And that is what you must display, because evolution has formed us that way - that the alphas genes are spread and the betas genes are not. This is our nature, and its a blessing and a curse that humans are capable of being aware of their own instincts and nature.
Use this gift.
Its important to be the one who displays the initial attraction. After that, unless she is displaying behaviour to lure you in, you go hands-off, and move on to the next female. Your only job is to pump and dump - it is not good reproductive strategy to invest effort in one female who wont put out when you can simply find another. Displaying this trait is in itself attractive to women even though they literally hate it and say its a turnoff. Its simply our biology - we may have advanced intelligence compared to other animals but we are still enslaved to our genetics and the instincts ingrained in them over hundreds of thousands of years.
Just a warning - this doesnt stop once you have the girl. She will shit test you at first (eg: wont respond to a text, act uninterested). They wont even do it consciously - its just nature. Dont give in - if she doesnt respond, dont message her. If she takes too long to respond to the point where its a thing you notice - dont respond at all and ignore her. It sounds like this will just push her away, but its exactly what reels them in. And if it doesnt, you never had a chance with that girl anyways - but since you are alpha youre already moving to the next basket so its zero loss for you.
I imagine this shit lessens as a relationship grows - it is the females biological role to be subserviant to the male's will. Even in marriage you gotta maintain the image of alpha - of being capable of producing offspring elsewhere if you must, although not *currently* willing as long as your mate continues to bend to your will.
I really fucking hate that this is our nature because as a nice guy i want to treat women as equals and make them feel great all the time without the games and bullshit. But as i said: all animals have a courtship mating game, and THIS IS THE HUMAN COURTSHIP MATING GAME. It MUST be played, just like we need air to breath and water and food to live - its a fact of life.
You're in for a horrible ride OP, misery and uncertainty will be your harness.
You have no idea how much you've helped, thanks. Even if it's just short term, I'm feeling way better now. The whole "apply this to the real world" part is the toughest though - I'm not an 'alpha male' in any way. I've been described as 'submissive' before, and I can see why people think that. I don't have any self esteem problems and I'm comfortable with myself, so I don't see myself as a weak, shy, needy submissive person, guess I'm just more of a reserved, relaxed, naturally nice "turn the other cheek" person. But just like how it was back in high school, the guys who got all the girls were the guys who were always getting into fights, the guys who raised their voice often and the stubborn guys who wouldn't shut up until things went their way. This alpha attitude is really unfamiliar to me but I'll get there - who I was three years ago is completely different from who I am now, too. Well, at least now I have something to focus on. Instead of losing my time intepreting every word that girl said, I'll work on making myself a better person and getting into a better mindset.
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>Instead of losing my time intepreting every word that girl said, I'll work on making myself a better person and getting into a better mindset.
Is probably the most important lesson for you and anyone else reading. Its absolutely critical that you dont allow your happiness be dependant on others - only you can control that. Find solace in yourself and your hobbies and the things you do in your day. What happens with others including females is of little to no importance to you. Thats what being alpha is - putting yourself first like nature intended.
Good luck anon, truly happy to be of help. When things turn around for you and you finally get to taste the fruits of your efforts, be sure to share your experience and help other anons find success the way i helped you.
I need your advice about how to deal with noisy neighbors. No matter how many times I've talked with these family or police or the landlord, they still make the same noise without any stop.
- They do not know how to close a door.
- They do not know how to speak.
- They watch TV with full volume.
- They play football in the house.
- They wake up around 7:00 in the morning and start making noise until 23:00 at night. They wake me up at the same time.
- Their food smells like shit but I can't say don't cook your traditional food. So, this one is out.
I bought a nice headset, but still I can hear them even listening music. Even I can't hear time to time, I still can scare with their door close. They mostly smash the door with full force.
I desperately need your advice about noise cancelling, isolation, how to cope with these kind of families, other suggesstions etc.
I've changed my Wireless SSID to DontSmashYourDoor306. I'm that hopeless. There was an indiegogo or something which was making a device that stop the noise coming from outside. No hope I guess.
The only thing that you could is move out from the house.
I have a neighbor that liked to listen to the tv extremely loudly and early on the morning, so i did the following;
I literally kicked his door off the hinges, came inside his house, and told him to lower the volume. He got so spooked that he jumped right out the sofa and went to turn the TV off.
I had prepared this defence, in case the police got involved, in which since I get on banging on the door I got worried something might be wrong, since a neighbor had gotten mugged on his house not long ago, and decided I needed to check. Later I was so infuriated by the fact that I told him to peep it down.
Luckily he was scared so shitless he did nothing about it, and now I can sleep well enough.
His door was repaired, but it still has the kicks mark. (two in total, actually).
I don't know, If the police won't help you then why should they help them? Just don't hit nobody, if you can prevent it, or let yourself be hit if you want to make it legal and in your favour. Just not inside their private property.
Is it weird to use tinder to make friends?
I just want to talk to girls not have sex with them or date them
I would like to get on tinder, but i feel like people there will be judging me.
Making it just about talking with girls, and not actually going on dates might make it easier.
Wait, you can use it yo make friends too?
I feel like OKC would be better for friend making.
i get it, i used it for friends too, kinda worked out, kinda did not since it turned to dating and it failed. im a girl and if you want to talk you can add me on skype (dont have kik): @ xlottedeb
anyone else who wants to be friends; feel free to add me
>too socially retarded to debate, banter, or have decent conversation
How do you make social gains, /fit/?
you really are retarded
>how do i learn to socialize
Not OP but I'm in the same situation. I can't see how socializing would help me at all. I literally will take hours or even days to figure out why someone's quip was funny when everyone else got it immediately.
Whenever I think it's a good idea to contribute some banter to a conversation 99% of the time I end up looking like this faggot
People have only ever laughed AT me and not WITH me.
So I just keep to myself and it's reached the point where I can barely mumble out coherent sentences. It feels fucking hopeless.
Start off talking to yourself, then when around other people just imagine that they are walls until you get used to talking to other people.
You just need to stop being afraid of how other people react to your thoughts. Say whatever the fuck you want.
Rules of not becoming like Chibi:
1. Don't try to be the center of attention, if you are not charismatic.
2. Laugh at things that are funny to you to show a sense of humor and awareness. Go watch live stand up and get a drink or two to get better social awareness.
3. If you tell a bad joke, own it. Say "well, that one bombed." or something along those lines to show you know when you bomb.
4. Know when not to talk. People will notice when you are just trying to fill the void with talking or trying to compensate on you not talking in a group.
5. Recognize when someone is in a talky mood, so you know that it is time to ask questions to show your interest. When someone is not in a talky mood don't start talking, like Chibi on that video.
6. Don't talk about memes unironically.