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>been single for so long that my family is starting to think i'm gay
what's the fastest way to get a gf? i need to cure this immediately
Get a job where lots of young pipo work and customers come in to have fun, like a pub or some shit. Eventually you'll get to know them and someone will show interest. Get closer and closer and boom, one day you wake up with a gf.
Visit the National Holocaust Centre and Museum and find yourself a nice Jewish girl there.
Ideally I want to marry a black or Afro-descended mixed woman because those are my preferences and I am against miscegenation. But black/mixed girls in my area that are cute, skinny and not ratchet, tend to prefer white and Asian men and have insane standards for black men if they even consider us. They act like how people stereotype Asian women acting towards Asian men basically. The ghetto degenerates appreciate me sometimes because of my looks, being a /fit/ decent looking brown skin with a well kept beard. But as soon as I open my mouth and they realize this is just appearance, and I’m an African nerd, they run away. And desu I tend not to have good chemistry with them anyway.
Normally I should have good chemistry with black girls into animanga and STEM, but these will date an Asian before dating a black man, and a light skin before a dark or brown skin. I know a 2nd gen Ghanaian girl that has dated nothing but Asians and she is really into K-Pop and K-drama. She has had me in the friend zone for almost half a decade. There are so many black girls like that in my area.
What should I do to find a LTR with a decent looking skinny black/mixed girl Id have good chemistry with and with whom I might raise intelligent and athletic children in the future?
doesnt matter if you are ugly or have very ethnic features
First off start drinking everyday and smoking weed you don't want to look like a bitch at social events
Well do what you need to change that. I mean for fucks sake you can literally take your American dollars to most African countries and be seen as wealthy. You gotta use your brain a little and stop giving up. When you do that your the basic stereotype.
Just date an immigrant African. Or ideally pull a chad move like moving to Africa and take your pick of local beauties who will value you for your intelligence and ability to provide.
Problem isn’t that black women are trash, it’s that American black women are pretty shit tier because of the culture and environment. You either compete for the lower number of quality American black girls or you move to an African country, shoot yourself into the top 10% of the dating market on virtue of being an educated American ( they won’t view you as the same as them because you’re black like American blacks do ).
It sounds scary, but as a black guy you have most of the advantages of being American in Africa, with the key unique ability to blend in as someone from somewhere in the continent.
Nothing a bit of soul food and the gym can’t get you ready for. That guys right, disregard hoes, acquire capital in a non nigerish/illegal manner and enjoy the rest of your life.
Worst case scenario you end up a rich version of stinkmeaner. Kino.
One thing I’ve noticed is that girls just talk to me out of the blue. One time at work, my co-worker basically started talking to me for an hour about her life. It’s not only girls now that I think about it. People in general like talking to me, I suppose it’s because I’m really good at making it seem like I’m listening even though 90% of the time I’m zoned out or just letting them speak.
What does that mean? How can I profit from this?
nothing, that's just being a normal regular person
Previous thread got nuked before for whatever gay reason
>27M married to love of my life
>racked up a body count of 30 from age 17-20 when I started dating my wife
>no I don’t cheat on my wife
Good luck man get to it.
Oh my bad if you’re 25 then you have pretty slim chances. Unironically try Christian dating apps. I have a real friend who got on one and is serious with the girl. He wasn’t a virgin and neither was she but they’re both low experience for sure. Also stop repeating shit to yourself like “virgin women only date non virgin men” and “I don’t CARE what SLUTS do”
You need to drop the incel card asap if you’re going to actually find a woman. You are a virgin at 25 you should stop with stringent requirements, as the old saying goes beggars can’t be choosers. Why are you a virgin anyway? Are you religious? Or it just never happened for you and you use the imnotadegenerate card to cover for your addiction to porn and vidya?
I'm not religious so going for religious girls is wrong honestly
I've accepted it's not gonna happen because honestly, even "muh trad Christiaan women" prefer non virgins
>Why are you a virgin anyway?
Just never happened
>>29054451 >Are you currently a neet?
No. I'm working a dead end job tho.
How do I have fun at a club by myself, like dance with girls too, not really looking to get laid, but maybe make some friends that I can hangout with.
And should I ask a girl to dance or just dance with girls who are already dancing?
>>29047595 >CHAD AMA >married to love of my life
Fuck off cuck go take turns doing the dishes lmao
I baked but Aqua ate it
I too am thinking of you always babe
I mean I assume it was some kind of 'no homo' type compliment, but also saying I'm not like a pretty boy or something? Who's opinion are you discarding? The other guys?
>>29056120 >Wat means?
He means you look like henry cavil and a redneck
It's really not that complicated
>>29056121 >Is it true that you get banned for being fat phobic and whatnot on there?
I was there back when coontown, jailbait and fatpeoplehate were still a thing (although I never used any).
You'll get banned from most of the main subs just for participating in certain other parts of the website but that's not a sitewide ban.
You can get banned from the website for doing almost anything but you have to catch an admin's attention (or someone who would report you) and generally in the sorts of communities where you'd slag fat people or trannies off you don't see power users.
I've been banned here dozens of times but on multiple reddit accounts I've never been sitewide banned.
It's not like I've been playing it safe either since it's completely trivial to ban evade on reddit.
I don’t over think but I know how to plan ahead, I found /pol during covid lockdowns and became radicalized then I got a gf and started calming down, having sex literally saved my life
>>29055906 >Women like retards so bad grammar is hot
This is true.
For some reason, females really despise intelligence and proper grammar. I understand that the tiny female brain thinks it's "boring" or "too uptight", but how is carelessness and blatant stupidity more attractive? Or is it one of those things where females are retarded themselves, thus can relate to other retards better?
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5-6 inches and no bigger. Bigger just hurts. Bigger dick is for bigger holes.
I’ve only had one dick.
I really, really enjoy it. I have no idea how big it is.
you male or female?
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>barely 5 in. length, just over 4 in girth why do i even bother trying at this point to get a gf? at least ai porn is good enough now to get me through an evening...
Any tips for a white male in the corporate world? i walk the balance between assertiveness and tact. Im somewhat rough around the edges so i laugh and smile to diffuse tension. Feels forced to me, but otherwise i come across as an antisocial sperg. When im asking very technical questions or driving a presentation though i lean into my confidence to great effect. A particular black woman on my current team always brings up basic leftist talking points which is annoying. I like her but often it seems she's trying to bait me (or whoever else) to talk about race, gender, or politics. I never take the bait. Im a peon on the corporate hierarchy so i avoid stepping ln toes, probably too much but I'd rather stay on the safe side
Overall, white collar social relationships feel very feminine to me.
Thanjs for the advice. Biggest challenge here is soeaking on their level. I fix my car, house and other shit, and I don't really give a shit about brands or certain levels of convience which runs counter to most of my coworkers' vakues. So a big challenge for me is engaging with the conversation in a relateable way to them, or at least understandable.
>that's only because there's simply more women in the workforce
In my line of work there is more men then women, but you make a good point. my male colleagues make meaningless statements to satisy the edi requirements/expectations. I've learned to interpret what people say as the opposite of what they really think in many cases. But still, we are hiring women/minorities just to fill a quota and denying clients in certain industries because of wokism which is retarded and possibly might affect my employment status. So im not really happy about it and i dont like lying about my beliefs towards it. Ironically, i think im one of the more sympathetic of the men towards women in the workplace, although out of a paternalistic drive rather than some woketard reason
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1: Your interpretation of skills that involve working with your hands is outdated, in our parents youth. Everyone dide DIY and physical labor shit, nowadays most people do code due to the technological revolution. What I'm saying is, you're actually the diamond in the rough. You can approach your hobbies and interests with a craftsmen lens to them and dumb it down in a way that a 10 year old would understand the basic barebones nature of your shit.
2: I am not telling you to lie about your beliefs, what I am telling you is pick your battles wisely, redirect topics gracefully, and learn how to patiently articulate your perspective on political issue ____ effectively. You will be interpreted in the WORST way possible if you say anything or question anything that isn't the norm. You must be clear headed and not let emotion rule you, if you wish to succeed at least. But you know that already don't you?
Other anon(s) have it. Bide your time, OP. You’re doing fine. Avoid topics you’d rather not discuss, ask questions. Be curious. Respect norms and one day you will be successful enough to shape them.
You cannot fight the establishment. You must become it.
>>29055632 >I am not telling you to lie about your beliefs, what I am telling you is pick your battles wisely, redirect topics gracefully, and learn how to patiently articulate your perspective on political issue ____ effectively
Im afraid one day il run out of ways to redirect this kind of conversation. A woman today sort of asked me what i believed, (although it wasn't a question, she said "im not sure where you stand politically...." and paused) i ignored the question by continuing the discussion that could be interpreted either way. They will probably learn where I stand at one point if they keep this shit up, if that happens I want to at least need to seem reasonable (to them). Im unvaxxed for example, they are all covid vaxxed. i caught them talking about. Covid vaccines from the hallway once and i hid for 5 min until they moved on.
>>29055661 >You cannot fight the establishment. You must become it.
This statement fascinates me. On one hand it's fucking annoying, but on the other it's funny to reframe extreme talking points as establishment and have people agree with me. At some level, we do agree, even through the layers of politic indoctrination bullshit. Im not even that right wing...
don't have political beliefs you're too cowardly to bring up around other adults, that's just a sure sign your heart isn't in it. the only political opinions you should bother keeping are ones important enough to be said because they directly affect your life. any other culture war bullshit can just slide off your back, you're totally fine never learning it and never having to have an opinion
Well, I've never posted on 4chan. Never even been on here but here goes nothing.
>Met last ex and former best friend at same time.
>Best friend had lots of issues, did all I could to keep her going, caught feels on the way.
>Relationship fell apart,
Almost had friend about a year later.
>Meet current girlfriend early 2022, things going well.
>Meet new best friend.
>New best friend is a carbon copy of myself, and we click on every conceivable level.
>She also has a lot of issues, more than I'm prepped to handle but I like to think I keep her going.
>It's happening again.
>I love my girlfriend with all my heart but there's a lot of differences between us. She's my first real relationship and I can't imagine losing her but we are so very different.
>Feelings for best friend have been obvious since day one.
>Feelings just keep piling.
>I won't say anything to either of them, how could I?
>I can't say I love her, but I do. It fucking hurts, and she knows this. She doesn't want to ruin what I have. Something is fundamentally wrong with me.
"You can't be there for someone for so long and keep them going without realizing you left a small part of yourself with them."
>'m lost. So very lost.
Your best friend will try to poach you from your gf lol
I feel like I’m having a stroke reading this
I've noticed these few months that I put way too much effort and commitment into what I do, only to be bested by people who dont put as much effort as I do, it sometimes hurt my already low self esteem and it seems like it's not going away anytime soon, any suggestions on how to deal with it?
Sometimes I think people around me dont have to put up with as much bullshit as I do and therefore they do something better than I can, because Im already with my hands full of other things that one single task becomes difficult for me to perform in comparison of others that dont have to worry about anything but the task at hand. Sometimes I think it has to do with my poor organization and management making me struggle with getting things done. Or maybe it's just my perfectionist tendencies making me put a shit ton of brain work just so I can be happy with what I do while others dont worry so much about stuff and manage to make a lot more progress as a result.
What should I do, /adv/?
The only realm where trying hard could be a negative would be in the realm of trying to talk to the opposite sex and get with them.
Most things in the world reward trying hard.
Being a try hard implies incomitance. Think effortlessly. Act with impulse it's easy to be burdened by what doesn't truly matter. Isn't better to get something done half assed then think all day about doing it? Some people need to learn to be more rational and other more emotional.
Fuck that's a toxic phrase. I doubt the people who are succeeding at what you're doing see you as such. Only the losers who aren't trying anything.
There's nothing you can do except to keep trying. I face the same problem too.
What's your effort to the grace of God? There are people out here who sacrifice dangerously for their kids. You don't realize the value of your predicament. This lesson to be yourself will make or break you. Every month of every year, you will see people comparing themselves and I just watch and laugh. I already know what will come out of their mouths when they turn 88. Every single achievement ever of all time is because people compare yourself so get the thing that you want to get to where you need to be and let every bad thought be worthless in your eyes. Stop being such a normalfraud which is a big time sin before God. I could never be like that.
COVID made me miss two years of college, I’m 23 and I work IT at a help desk basically earning minimum wage. I’ve made some good strides with my anxiety (both mental and social) but I have no idea what the fuck I should be doing. I met one of my high school classmates a few weeks ago and he basically mogs me in achievements. I’m hoping to use that jealousy to fuel myself into getting a career locked down but even then I have no idea what career I should go into. How can I find out what career suits me?