I'm almost 21 and I've never had a gf. I have no problem talking to girls and asking them out although most of them reject me in one way or another. The ones that do go out with me say they've had an amazing time and usually want to repeat but they always hit me with "I'm not interested in a relationship right now" or "Let's just be friends" although they dont mind going out again or seeking my attention.
Most of my friends tell me I'm good looking, that I should have higher standards and that there should be more guys like me.
I have no idea what I'm doing wrong nor do the people I ask.
I'm not the most outgoing but I have a fairly large social circle and try to lead an interesting life.
I can't stop fidgeting, I can't get comfortable. I feel too hot with blankets, yet freezing without. I have hurtburn and I feel itchy without any apparent reason.
All this fidgeting and moving is pissing my GF off, and she has work in a bit. I FEEL tired. My eyes are heavy, yet while I'm laying here, my mind is moving a mile a minute. I keep thinking about stupid shit, like how I have to wait for a game to come out, or how people have wronged me, or how I never get to see my old-ass grandparents.
I don't sit on my phone in the bed, because that shit would make it worse, but I figured I'd post here in case anyone had any ideas.
Soon i will be working in a medical biology lab, that has many sub-labs, some more interesting than others. Specifically, one sector in still in boxes, due to rest of personnel not knowing the specific sector ( cytometry if anyone is interested). I have not any specific specification about this (only what others are having) , but am confident i can do it. How do i convince management to assign me this sector?
I told my mom I was depressed over Thanksgiving break. She signed me up for counseling (I think? I don't really fucking know exactly what it is). My appointment is scheduled for Tuesday. What can I expect? I'm going for depression, but I think I might actually be bipolar.
Should I straight up ask them to prescribe me medication? I have no interest in talking to anyone about my feelings or going to multiple sessions. I'm just tired of having suicidal and homicidal thoughts. Should I tell them that? I don't want to go to psych.
weed give me weed i want weed just need to feel not depressed. I thought quitting weed over the break from uni would make it easier. Boy was I wrong, all I want to do is smoke. Ive been watching netflix so much, I feel like im apart of the fucking tv. All my friends want to do is play Smash and MarioKart, like holy shit Im not 12 anymore. My cranky ass cant sleep until 8am cus I just play ex girlfriend arguments in my head from three years ago. I know Im not depressed enough to feel suicidal because I'm graduating in Spring. I just can't help but feel complete dissatisfaction in life. God damn it people how do you do this. I just want to sit, chill, and enjoy my break. I'd get a girlfriend, but im scared i'd drag her down with me. Should I hook up with someone on Tinder? I havent fucked in a year and 1/2.
TLDR: Ive dragged myself through 5 years of Computer Science by smoking weed and avoiding any emotional attachment. Now I feel like a born again virgin that can't seek pleasure in life. >Pic related >Yes I know I looked like a depressed jew hippy
When my boyfriend masturbates he usually watches porn. He says he watches porn for a bit and then when he is about to cum he thinks about me. I've told him I don't like him masturbating to porn because he is thinking about other people while masturbating (doing something sexual). He then tells me it is hard to masturbate with just imagination because he doesn't really have one and can't empathize with how I feel because I have a vagina. It really bothers me that he does this. Am I in the wrong here or is there a logical reasoning into what is he doing is wrong (and also not healthy for the relationship)?
>me and my wife have been married for 2 years >we only dated for 8 months before we got married due to citizenship issues(shes from china and is a MD resident) and so that i could use my GI bill to help pay off some college loans. >she recently completed he residency and is now a internal medicine physcician and now that her income dwarfs mine (rad tech making almost a third of what she makes) she is basically making me a bitch. >She took her job and made me move with her, made the decision on our house with little to no input from me, and even started leasing a brand new Alfa romeo without even having me there (while im in my 10y/o civic si) >Also because shes the lowest on the totem pole shes on call alot and is working a ton, and usually it to tired or worn out from work for sex (its been 3 weeks) >ive tried to bring problems up and she brushes them off starting off defensive then apologizing, ive brought up maybe gling to consuling but she says shes either too busy or we dont have real problems or anything big to talk about.
Now im freezing my ass off in the northern midwest away from all my friends and family (debating on flying down for xmas but she will have to work) wtf do i do?
Hey guys I'm looking for legitimate advice on my YouTube channel, mainly to do with my audio, and growing my channel, I've ordered a pop filter but does anyone have any tips on how to "professionally" mix audio or how to go about learning it? And how do I get my channel out there more? Like is there a way to trip the algorithm and get into more suggestions? Ty in advance