>>20018753>But why is it too much to ask? How available would I have to make myself just to stop a guy from feeling the need to jack off to other women on the internet constantly?
Because the feeling of arousal isnt something a man controls.
He can control his actions, he can control what he is looking at, but the actual feeling of arousal is uncontrolable and just happens.
Ask your self something. When something iches do you not scratch it?
Men know they cant get with the woman that looks like that in porn BUT porn does not mean we have an emotional connection to it. Love and lust are 2 different things. The feeling of sexual arousal isnt something we choose, its something that builds up to frustration. If you want him to stop looking at porn get used to being looked at as a sexual object and not a gf.>Why wouldn't a guy be able to accept that and humor me since I don't judge their lifestyle in any other major way?
But you are, you are basing your relationship on this and thats being judgemental in a very big way. >It's controlling, yeah, but it's such a small thing why can't I have just that?
Because you have so much already. You have a BF to comfort you to love you to be your rock. Its really "spoiled" I am sorry
to say and all you are doing in this relationship is taking and not giving. You arent thinking how the bf feels you are just thinking how you feel. Remeber we guys are people too, a d being controling like this is making us less of a person and more like a trained pet.>I like sex. And I like when a guy likes sex with me. If a guy would rather spend his free time pleasuring himself rather than looking forward to having sex together like I would.
Because you dont want to have sex as much as we do. Your sexual drive isnt hitting you constantly, often times you get into a fight or you are not up to it or you just dont want to.
Thats why we go to porn, we dont work on your sexual convience.