>>25095958>i've never been convicted of anything so i'm way higher value than this guy according to what women say
There's your problem right there. What women consciously want and what they actually respond to are totally different in most cases. This actually applies to men a lot of the time too, but it's a different set of wants and psychological issues, so I'll focus on women for this thread.
People are saying your pic is fake. I don't know if it is, but it's still an extreme illustration of a real principle.
First of all, you need to understand that Tinder is primarily for sex. Women on there (even the "no hookups I'm serious for real this time" types) are primarily looking for traits that they are sexually attracted to, not traits that they think will make them great grandparents together in 50 years. Even girls who genuinely desire a real relationship will have to start with who they are attracted to for sexual reasons (note that not all sexual reasons are physical reasons, although that is a lot of it).
Whether or not you've been convicted isn't even a variable in the equation of what sexually draws a woman to a man. The fact that you're a nice guy with a stable job isn't much of a factor either. All the things that women say they want in Prince Charming - throw that right out of the window if it contradicts their behavior. Sexual desires happen at the instinctual level, and are more powerful than conscious wants.
Also, this: >>25096389
So you're going to have to make the first move unless you're in the top percentage of attractive men.