1. you don't want a furry wife.
these girls are often in (poly) "relationships" with multiple other weirdos. now, these weirdos have norms and ingroup values as well, which is ironic because one of these values is openness which they are not.
what does this mean for you?
it means your future furry wife is 1. fat. 2 is run through. 3. has herpes. 4. will have her own ideas on what an ideal relationship is, and this will not be good for you.
you will probably be cucked and made a plow horse. all n all just troon out. i have no idea how to get a furry gf. the kind of woman who is a furry is gutter whore tier and back in old Arabia would be stoned with good reason.
you are looking for a unicorn of sorts. not a fat whore and a furry. very hard to find. try your local area. I have no idea what that looks like. even in your local area unless you are very unique you will probably be at the bottom of the pecking order and wont catch the eye of the chicks there. you'll also see what I mean about poly relationships.
I actually hate non normie communities, for how bad being a normie is. hunting for a they/them run through mental illness worshipping retard is even worse.
honestly god speed to you anon. you're looking for a needle in a Haystack factory. I'd start with local cons and places these people would hang out but to tell you the truth you're in an uphill battle.