hi all, i’m a senior in highschool and i recently had a girl with whom i’ve been super close friends for a few years tell me that she likes me. I told her i would need some time to think about dating her because i’ve just never considered it. I’m nervous to jump in because she’s kinda too high maintenance and would demand a lot of my energy, and i also do not want to put a title on anything because i’m interested in a few other girls with whom i don’t want to blow my chances.

So, how do i tell her that i’m interested in sex, sneaking out, going on adventures, but uninterested in commitment and monogamy without sounding like a douchebag?