Had you never met Bailey Jay and not known who he is, what would your first thought be?>oh yeah, that's definitely a dude
No. It is quite likely that you would believe he was a woman. Hence, the term, "feminine". Now let's not fuck around - knowing his gender, you would have to be a moron of gargantuan proportions to even attempt to debate that he possesses the XX chromosome and thus, is female... however, let's be honest here. He does appear to be feminine.
All the pictures of Jesse Ventura cannot change this irrefutable fact. There are some men who've gone to extraordinarily lengths to appear feminine and, one "reads the fine print", so to speak, one may never know otherwise.