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FAQ: >Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>? >What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do? >How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
I have anxiety disorder and OCD. I'm not on SSRIs and i'd rather not take them again.
So, i'm having troubles to sleep. Every time i go to bed at 01:00, i stay awake until 4-5 or something like that, so i don't bother to go to bed early anymore. But i want to change this.
When i go to bed, the OCD hits, i try to change my head position at the pillow during all the night, and i can only sleep if i'm on my right side. My legs/hair/arms begin to itch randomly so i need to scratch them everytime. In short, everything prevents my Brain from turning off, doesn't matter how much i think to myself "you don't need this. Fuck off and sleep".
I'm taking 1 Pyridoxine dymenhidrinate pill every night because apparently its a harmless med that causes sedative effects, but i feel like it barely works. A long time ago, my psychiatrist gave me clonazepam but i don't take it anymore, it didn't quite work.
Advice please? I have college classes at night so i arrive at midnight. I have a healthy diet.
She's pretty damaged. She has a history of sexual abuse as a child that left her fucked up and now she can only derive selfworth through sex. She's also a suicidal cutter who has tried to kill herself on multiple occasions. When she asked me to be her boyfriend I saw this vulnerable hypersexual young girl who whould ortherwise end up with some creep who would try and take advantage of her I just wanted to protect her. I wanted to save her and was willing to do anything to that end I even said I'd marry her. When she made sexual advances I tried to tell her I couldn't but I was to afriad to deny her due to her insablity. I was afriad she'd try and kill herself. Lobg story short it ended badly and I learned the hard way that you can't save somone from themselves. Getting involved with her is my biggest regret in life now I feel that if most people knew they'd shun me I feel like society will never see me as a good person again. Am I being mellowdramatic or is this really as bad as I fear?
I recently heard in a podcast that thanks to apps like tinder it is easier than ever for men to have sex.
This is the complete opposite of what I've been led to believe on 4chan and social media.
Then again, I don't really know because I have been in a relationship for such a long time.
To find out for myself, I set up a tinder account for 2 days. Sure enough I got over 100 matches and an attractive girl gave me her number upfront and seemed willing to have an immediate one night stand. I'm a pretty average looking dude, not a male model by any means.
This blew my mind. Has 4chan really distorted the way I view reality and single men aren't really suffering as much as I was lead to believe?