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How do you deal with rejection? The way I've dealt with it is I don't talk to my parents. If it wasn't for them I wouldn't be in this world constantly suffering, therefore they don't deserve any love whatsoever from me.
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ITT: Ask The Opposite Gender Anything

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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.

FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.

>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.

>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.

>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.

>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.

>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.

>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.

>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.

>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>
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Hey anons, I'm having real trouble finding the courage to talk to my crush... I guess my biggest reason for fear is i have absolutely no clue how she sees our relationship. We have been friends for 5 years or so and until recently i was never really attracted to her. I've never really had this problem before, but i guess it's because of how attracted i am to her.

What should i do? should i just stop being a pussy and talk to her more often? tell her how i feel? i'm trying to wait for the right moment i guess...
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Guy I like might've raped me and is possibly a sociopath

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So I'm friends this guy from art club and started to really like him; we share a lot of interests, he's really serious about art, and I've really opened up to him
Issue is, I'm pretty sure he's mentally I'll in some way. You can't really tell right away but he has really flat emotional response to everything and zero morals or ethics. He's been in service before he joined uni and told me some fucked up stories and was surprised when he saw me crying.

There was also a Reddit (ik, don't comment) post on r/Advice that matched him to a tee about how he would never feel empathy, didn't feel many emotions, didn't trust anyone, etc.
When I confronted him about it at his place he pushed me down and beat me (but it was like SM stuff like spanking, slapping, stomach punching, choking i.e. he didn't really want to hurt me but he was doing it pretty hard desu) and he knows I'm an M, he finished with fingering so it was 100% sexual and told me before I left not to tell anyone.

I don't know if what he did to me can even be called rape, I came super hard and he's a guy I'm into. You can call me a battered wife or whatever but I really like him and kinda want to help heal him if it's possible. Is there anything I can do to help? it's been a week and we've been acting like nothing happened
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Should I just quit drinking all together?

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Hey /adv/, I recently have become more and more busy with work. Unfortunately, the little free time I get is spent going out with friends and getting absolutely hammered. I don't really enjoy, in fact, I hate it. There just isn't much for someone in their early 20's to do in my city except go get drunk. I noticed its becoming a problem and I'm thinking of scrapping it all together.

I guess my question is: How can I hangout with the same people but not get drink? Self control is my biggest issue.
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Motivation/ self-discipline

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i have a major problem in that i won't do things I want to do unless forced to. i can't set my own goals without giving up unless there's an outside force that makes me.

Example: I would never tidy my room unless I have a girl over. If i never had a girl over, I'd never tidy my room again.

How do I set my own goals and give myself the motivation/ discipline myself to actually go and reach them?

(I also have minor depression/anxiety which further adds to my lethargy/laziness)
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I preferred when my BF was chubby

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it makes me insecure when i see him talking to other girls that are prettier than me and i can see that they show interest in him and now i feel like I'm pressured to work out in order to keep him
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Getting few likes on instagram

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I post family pictures & pictures of our kid. Getting like 3 likes on my photos even though got 103 followers.
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Should I ruin this girls marriage or just leave it be?

Greentext time
>be me, one year ago
>in a relationship, things have been going downhill for a couple years now
>meet this girl, also in a relationship
>100% chemistry, sparks flying everywhere
>have an affair half a year later for about half a year
>we decide to stick with our partners, mainly me because I have a life going
>stay friends, have good times together
>she gets closer to her bf again
>leaves me hanging every possible situation
>decide to make a short trip together with a grp
>insomnia is killing me because I have to share a room with a stranger, she has a spare bed in her room
>decides to leave me hanging
>two days later, talk about what to do that evening
>"We wont do THAT thing this evening"
>Does THAT thing that evening, leaving me out, not even telling me whats going on
>this has happened couple times b4 and I always thought I wasnt beta but well...
>but since life is nice it gave me a chance for redemption. Ive never done anything comparable b4

>write anonymous letter to her bf telling him about the affair
>he already suspected it all the time and tried cockblocking me 24/7 by forbidding her to see me when hes at home
>get them both to split up just to fuck her over and make her feel the despair I suffered.
>she knows about my severe depression, my major lack of friends and how much of a problem it is for me and practically my biggest weakness atm
>still decides to treat me like shit and tells over and over again that it wasnt intentional and that shes sorry

So, do I do it?
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I want to meet up with an online friend in the near future for the purpose of spending time together and getting fucked. We've known each other for a while and are both virgins, and I want to relieve him of that. I'm very attracted to him.

However, we live on opposite sides of the US. He's been gracious enough to allow me to stay at his apartment for free for the time I'm there, meaning is just have to pay for the ticket. However, I come from a conservative background and am a bit of a shut in when not at college, only leaving for groceries. I'm not sure how to explain my absence to my parents without arousing suspicion. Do you have any advice?
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