/ATOGA/ - Ask the Opposite Gender Anything

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hey guys how do I stop giving fake good advice on /adv/. I pretend to have life advice but I really don't, it just feels good helping others.

how do I stop?

Femanon here. 8 years ago i met my friend online and had the strongest creepiest crush on him. He rejected me because i was a teenager and he was in his 20s. It hurt my self esteem but 8 years later we are both adults I'm in my 20s and he's in his 30s. I am sleeping at his house with his roommate. I brought up how i used to have feelings for him and i wonder if he could possibly be interested in me today but i don't think I'm his type. He looks exactly the same and i still find him attractive but don't know if i should try anything and even though I've almost been single for a year i am still rebuilding self esteem issues from being cheated on almost 7 consecutive years straight. Should i ask if he's interested or just try to stay friends? I don't want to make things weird again.

Matched with pic-related. I don't even like anime, but the idea of woman basically calling guys who do a bottom bitch kind of raises my eyebrows a bit. I mean, how can I be myself if it feels like women constantly judge a man for not being masculine enough? Ironically enough, when women say stuff like this, it just makes them sound even more masculine and unattractive to me. I mean, what if I end up going out with this chick and she starts thinking less of me because I like taking baths sometimes? Or playing video games? Why does it seem like it's usually women who put limits on what a man should enjoy? I couldn't give a shit what interests a woman has. If she want's to watch a dumb reality TV show, whatever. I don't have to like everything she does. Or am I just being mistaken, and this is just a normal compatibility issue?

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I'm 23, she's 22, a proud violinist.

I'm just a college student that enjoys growing weed and shrooms.

She's good in bed. However, she's bipolar so most of the time she's either depressed or dissociated and low libido.

What should i do help me please.

Vent here frens

So on Friday I got Burger King before work as I usually cheat on Friday. Shortly after entering my job I started feeling super full and bloated. 2 hours later I threw up and every hour or so I was doing it. I threw up in the parking lot and right outside my home when I got back. My head started to hurt and I got no sleep whatsoever due to going back and forth with vomiting. Next morning i’m still throwing up so I drank some ginger ales but didn’t do much. The next day (Sunday) I felt a whole lot better but noticed when I shit, i’m basically pissing shit diarrhea out of my ass. I don’t want to describe it but when I sit down it basically floods out. It’s been like this since Sunday. Should I be concerned?

No matter how much I improve or what I do life seems like an infinite desert with very sparse little oasis that don't last long. Why do things need to be like this?