Does anyone have any good advice for mid 20s fuck up who’s trying to by a house? I just got out of the military and am not sure how I’m going to afford to live. I’m 25 years old and have about $4k in my bank account. Spent the rest dealing with bullshit legal issues. I’m living with my parents currently (can’t stay for long, as they are making me pay for basically all the utilities) and in school to be a certified hvac technician. I am looking at prices on houses and I cannot understand how anyone my age can afford a house. Really feel shitty right now and don’t know what my next move will be

I’m a mid-twenties femanon and I’m having trouble making friends. It seems that everyone recommends the bar if you want to socialize. I don’t drink and don’t plan to start, but I’m sure I can just drink something nonalcoholic and talk to people. The trouble is, I’m not looking for a relationship - I have a boyfriend of several years and I’m very happy with him. I’m worried that if I go to a bar, people might think I’m there to get dates, and I might end up leading them on accidentally. How can I make it really clear that I just want friends? Or is that not possible in a bar setting?

>be me
>keep seeing this every day as I put my fingers up my butthole for years
>schedule an appointment with a gastoenthorologist
>cancel it today because my gf won't be available much this week, except tomorrow and we want to spend this day together

What thoughts do you have? I intuitively understand I'm way too simple-minded, but honestly I'm just afraid to talk about this shit with anybody irl. Also, somebody said it may just be internal hemorrhoids and in that case it's easier for me to live with it than go for treatment

Really, if it's just internal hemorrhoids, why even care? What's the danger of not treating hemorrhoids, it doesn't hurt not does it bother me in anyway. The real concern though is it may not necessarily be hemorrhoids, then I'm prolly fucked

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I go through these periods where something will switch and I'll become extremely paranoid. I haven't gone outside for about 3 weeks and am terrified to speak. It will just go away on its own but when it happens it becomes debilitating.
I don't want to take meds.
>just go outside
I can step outside but the feeling doesn't go away and notably affects the way I speak and communicate.

I'm poor, lazy, mentally ill, unethical and not good at anything.
How can I make the world a better place?

So I'd to stop drinking for a while as I was getting wrecked all the time in my 20s. I'm 34 now, and even though I can maintain being sober for periods of time, when I am sober I feel fucking awful.

I can't get on with family and friends easy, don't find the same stuff funny, in general it just feels like a different human being altogether. I take everything to heart and in general just feel more hopeless to life.

Now I stopped drinking for a reason, waking up hungover after a huge spell for drinking you have two choices, get through living hell for a week to start to feel marginally better or just keep drinking. When I'm hungover bad I feel like reality is a switch and somethings going to turn it off any minute. This is obviously terror inducing.

But without alcohol, I really am missing large chunks of my ability to cope with shit. When I first stopped drinking I was hitting nicotine vape constantly and it buzzed me enough that it was easy. But having given that up too; it's very difficult.

I know there ar ethings I need to do like get other hobbies, try to find better people and so on, I even have done some of these things but I'm feeling very little enjoyment of anything really.

Recently I had like two beers and just felt like I could "be" better or something. hard to describe.

Any sober fellas going through similar experiences?

I not only do not give a fuck about the environment, but I also enjoy polluting it intentionally. Littering and plastic bottles do very little on the larger scale. How do I fuck up the environment on a bigger scale?

Anyone here have experience with antidepressants? How did they work for you?