why do grown women like "cuddling"? 40% of the time it leads to sex with my gf but 60% of the time she literally needs to be held like a baby and it's just a buzzkill. i like a hug and the feeling of closeness now and then but it's a fucking chore most of the time and it's made me resent her


man when i was younger i'd just ghost a bitch who just wanted to "cuddle". maybe i should kill myself

>Be at a bar
>Get approached by a random girl
>Start having a conversation with her
>Her friend pull her over
>"Leave that guy alone, he's ugly!"
>They leave

How do I deal with this pain?

>Got a bachelor degree in education
>Want to share my passion For history with highschool students
>Call up a guy I know, who is a principal.
>Since I already know him, he agree to take me in a nonformal interview, in a bar.
>I get too drunk
>Start saying stupid shit on autopilot
>I Start asking how he manage to have sex with the students
>He tell me he dosen't
>I call him a pussy for not trying
>Say if I was a teacher, I would have sexwith all the hot girls
>He leave saying he'll make sure I'll never be a teacher and he's showing the video to the police.
>Bartender ask me to leave, or he'll call the cops and I'm permabannned from all the bars in my town.
>I'm not a pedo, I was just sloppy drunk saying whatever bullshit tought came to mind
>I'm afraid to go out
>I'm afrad that people think I'm actually a pedo

How do I unfuck myself?

My ex wants me to send him nudes
Why do men do this? What's the point of getting nudes from a girl you don't love anymore?

Lurked this board for a while. There's a BPD related thread posted every once in a while. Do people (I'm assuming it's men) like women with BPD that much? That idea is so bizzare.

I have BPD myself. Though I'm a guy. Don't know how different guy BPD is from girl BPD but if my experiences related to close relationships are anything to go by, it's nothing to be envious about, honestly. Just my thoughts. It's called "Bad Person Disorder" for a reason, sadly. I can't deny that.

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If I act like [X], I will slowly but surely become [X], correct?
So if I act like I'm the king on Earth, and by using the "Fake it til you make it" strategy, I will eventually become just that, right?
Also with the law of attraction in mind, it would make sense, right?

I'm a failed mid-20s non degree holder and I have the typical weeb pipe-dream of moving to Japan to get a job. How the hell can I do it? I don't even know what I "like" so I can't just say "oh I want to be a teacher in Japan" or "I want to be a video game designer in Japan", I feel very aimless.

Should I go the typical "get an English degree and teach English in Japan" route which would require me to spend a few more years of my life getting a degree? I was told about a programming bootcamp that would only take about 1.5 years and I could potentially do that but I don't know how in demand a programming job in Japan would be

What are other options to getting a job there/being able to move there? I'm tired of wasting my life away.

All these years I thought I lost my libido but it turns out I just needed to move to a neighborhood with more skinny white women. Ever since I moved I see someone new who makes me react like pic related every day. How do I attract white women as a round-faced mystery meat mutt?

>24 years old
>still live with father (70yo)
>been working a shit retail job as my first job for 15 months now (plan on quitting before the year ends), but I am in "senior"
>have an associate's degree in Business Administration, but still haven't done anything in the field
>have a good amount of savings, but only due to father having no need for any financial assistance from me
>studying to get a certification in bookkeeping, but only because I've forgotten the basics of accounting
>no kids, but no gf
>no car, but I'm not lacking for commute options
>don't drink or smoke, but I don't go out
>lost 15 pounds since the end of January, but still overweight
The situation's not good, but I am aware it could be worse. I'm just worried if my life is going to stagnate at this.