I have no fucked a ugly girl in my life and I was very drunk and fucked some random girl in my apartment complex. I do not feel good about fucking ugly girls and I am very disappointed that I did it. Also, since she is my neighbor, I’m going to see her everyday. What do I do?
>can't fall in love with someone who sexualizes me (early on) >never been loved by anyone who doesn't
it's like men are only capable of fleeting sexual infatuation, every love story I witness either ends on one of the two cheating or the guy acting odiously because stuck in a no longer sexually stimulating relationship
what's the solution to this one? celibacy?
I'm 19/F and mostly meet my potential partners at school
>but girls are only worth their coochie, it's only natural that you get sexualized since that's all you're good for
I usually try my best to make conversations constructive for both me and my interlocutor and question whether I'm being too selfish/self-centered, have a bunch of interests that are more or less relevant
also I try to be as sober as possible, avoid arousing topics, dress modestly, etc. so I'm really not doing anything to provoke sexual infatuation
>if it was chad sexualizing you, you wouldn't complain
I've been asked out a few times by popular guys, especially one that was singularly tall/handsome/social/smart (the whole package, your classic chad), but started avoiding them as soon as I learned (because suspected their main motivation)
I'mma tell you right now anon, don't date that depressed girl with high-functioning anxiety.
I'm sure she tries so hard to work through it and I'm sure she's still perfect in your eyes but it's not worth it. Sure, helping her through her rough patches might make you feel closer, sure she's beautiful and sure she's sweet and affectionate but again, it's not worth it.
Severe mental problems aren't just for now, they're for life. Things may seem ok now but life only gets harder. Some couples can work through it together but it'll always be easier to live with somebody normal and healthy - don't deny yourself that if you have the choice.
Biden has ruined the local economy and libs are pouring in. My house is worth four times I bought it for but so is everything else. I can't sell and I am stuck here. Is there any way to find an advantage in this situation?
Here is me, a desperate 21yo kissless virgin, really want to date someone already. Never got the chance, no one liked me. I met a girl three weeks ago. We live in the same dorm and met each other and went for a walk/to a near by cafe a few times. Not as a date.
She is really nice. Very polite, socially awkward and shy, also a kissless virgin, loves complementing people. Majoring in international relations, knows Japanese and can watch anime with me. Sort of left-leaning, but not too radical(like supports LGB, but not T. Is pro-abortion, but hates twitter wokism and feminists these days. Sympathetic towards immigrants, but acknowledges them as a problem that has to be dealt with). She is funny, and finds my jokes funny as well. Not obnoxious. Has no ig, twitter or tiktok. A good listener. Always glad to see me and talk to me. An ideal gf I would be happy to have.
BUT I DON'T FIND HER ATTRACTIVE. She is not hideous, but very far from beautiful. Wears simple clothes and no make up. And I am so annoyed that I finally see a likeable girl, but I just don't like her in that way. If only she was fucking beautiful.......
I've been crushing on a girl at work for months but it turns out she's gay and everybody knew but they cheered me on for laughs and I'm sure the girl and all the other women knew as well because I'm obvious as fuck with my crushes.
This is so embarrassing, I don't know what to do. The girl has been nothing but nice so obviously I became delusional but now that I know this info it's going to be awkward and all the women will look at me funny.
How can I keep everything friendly and keep it from becoming weird?
its so easy to fuck girls at partys and concerts, both of us are buzzed and the convos go so smooth. But is this idea of using drunk girls for sex wrong? Should I even care that im taking advantage of them?