>>24009482Tell her you've got an erection, sorry, it happens by itself. You'll try to keep it away from her. Say it in a light-hearted way, like, it's not hilariously funny, but you're not going to rape her, kind of tone. Kind of off-hand.
That's your move, dude. She then follows that with an affirmative or negative response. If she suggests you hug, and you have told her you have a boner, incorporate your boner into the hug.
If she suggests a hug before you announce your boner, then that would be a good time to ask her if she minds.
If her response is cool / cold, face away from her and get some sleep.
Girls are aware that when they share beds with us, we get turned on. That is all normal. The fact she's offered to share a bed with you might well mean she's interested in you. She's arranging all of this in advance, right? She's not suddenly found herself bedless outside your door.
Has she maybe given signals in the past you might have not picked up on? If this IS a come-on, you won't get another, if she literally gets into bed with you, and you turn her down, she's gonna assume you're not interested at all.
Yeah of course she's told you about her room-mate and a party and all lthat shit. She's not just gonna flat-out say "there was that time I shared a bed cos I wanted to fuck the dude", is she?