When I talk/flirt with a girl, how do I know she's just seducing me for fun and attention? I've had a few experiences recently that have drained me. Girls wanting to talk for hours, giving me signals and then just fizzing out. I want to identify this so I don't waste time any longer. Just recently I spoke to a missionary girl who told me I was like a professor she had a crush on, gazed into my eyes a lot and played with her hair, but when it came time to ask for a date, she denied me. Similar things have happened recently, even to the point of making out with the girl and then she just jets. I'm frustrated and lonely.