I'm very aware due to being on the internet that I'm far more likely to be hit with less helpful comments and more troll comments or people trying to belittle the issue in order to feel good about themselves but frankly I'm desperate enough to not care and ask anyway.

For those who has struggled with insecurities involving a lack of a sex life in a while or never having had one at all, what advice and suggestions could you give to someone who is desperately trying to overcome the negative emotions an insecurity like this can bring?