>>25671165>Age, experience, maturity
What experiences in particular are to talking about that allow me to exert power over her? What is the magic trick that I learned about in the last eight years that allows me to control a person's kind that she is her to discover?>You're very sure about this aren't you?
Perhaps give a counterexample? An 18-year-old male will also be physically larger than her, meaning that if he were a bad guy, he could hurt her if he wanted. He could also use guilt to pressure her into sex just as easily as an older male. What's the magic ability I the potential to use here that a younger guy doesn't? Abusers can be any age. Hell, if anything, if something DID happen, the 18-year-old male would be more likely to be left off the hook if reporter because "he's got his whole life ahead of him, he just made a mistake." If I did something wrong and it were reported, I'm more likely to have the book thrown at me.>So you got older and figured "hey, it's pretty good for my ego to have a starry eyed youngster look up to me. I bet these hags are super mad that I'm dating a person who doesn't know why my flaws are flaws yet"
She doesn't "look up to me." She's not a little sister, for chrissakes. It's a normal-ass dynamic we have, except she's also really hot. Yeah, maybe it adds to my satisfaction that this makes the kind of 33-year-old girl who says shit like "it's okay if I don't go to the gym, I'm self-care can be eating Ben and Jerry's instead" every day as an excuse for having a paunch seethe.