Im going to tell you my experience.
The only time i tried to court a girl was when i courted an ARMY, back in high school.
She was fucking nuts: in 2nd grade she was a THICC blonde slav, who was always having either a B or an A mark on every tests, then during summer she ended up going to the hospital because she became an anorexic cunt. When she got back from rehab she started fucking every stranger like the worst whore, getting the most cheap looking tattoos, getting the worse marks "because man, im too stupid, pls pity me" while also jerking off to kpop fanfics and convincing the top nerdy girls in my class that doing what she does is good.
I tried to get her in a serious relationship right after she got back from summer holidays, before all this shit. Well, she friendzoned me after me and her were spending whole nights talking about ANYTHING really.
Then she got into one relationship: a guy that lived across the fucking country; of course, it didnt last long. Then she had a fuckfriend who already fucked half the school (the funniest thing of him was that he was the spitting copy of the imagine dragon leadsinger). And when we finished highschool she finally settled with a stereotypical basedyboy(one of those who were happy that doom was coming out with animal crossing).
In conclusion, i have to add she had many perversions: for example, she would get turned on when she heard the needle machine of the tattoo artist. Or she would get turned on by the clavicle.
Now, she got into kpop another girl: specifically, a chink.
The girl was a fucking pervert: for example, she was into fucking man with small lips: this way she would be able to "search for them".