21yo virgin stood up on a second date. Really hit it off on the first date, she also has many passions/interests with much in common with me and was enjoying herself on the first date. Both laughing. We even danced at a jazz place and she kissed me afterwards with enthusiasm and grabbing my hand to hold. After she dropped me off she told me to text her and kissed me goodbye.
Second date arranged it for 6:30pm at a cafe, pushed it to 7pm since I had something pop up for work and she said '7 sounds good.' I get there 7:02pm check my phone, shows 'seen' on the text I sent a couple hours earlier clarifying which cafe it was.
Then I get immediately blocked on all socials and after waiting 30min I leave.
The cafe closes at 7pm I know, but still she could have shown up and we could have walked somewhere else. I even planned for that instead of changing plans I got her a small bottle of her favourite drink.
Devastated. I get I fucked up by not rearranging when I saw it was closed, but this was really just a meeting place before going to a nearby park. Maybe she got spooked when she saw it was close or perhaps it was the invite for me too cook for her at my place afterwards if she is hungry that scared her off.
I have been told I am good at conversation but maybe I didn't ask enough questions about her on our date or tell her more clearly what I am looking for.
Then again she goes by "he/they" and works in a sex shop, so perhaps I dodged a bullet.
I invited some other girl to my place afterwards. Even though we grinded she didn't want to kiss (she was very into it though, said she was worried about noise or maybe not a big kisser) but this did not help as I know this girl is boring and will never be as interesting or attractive as the girl who stood me up.
I just want a curious partner with chemistry and some passions, had a longterm relationship before so know what I am missing now in having someone to share life with.
Ty for reading,