This post also highlights another epidemic within society; it's excessive feminization. Allow me to clarify: When I say "excessive feminization", I mean in the way that how increasingly, issues are being viewed through a feminine lens, which I established before is a negative for men and their perception of self.
Objectively speaking, men and women are different at a biological level. From how they think, act, handle certain biological stressors, is completely different. This is especially true with psychology. When try to adopt the idea of outwards social justification, you set the stage for self destructive tendencies in men, like hedonism and materialism. This is not a new phenomenon either, with the ancient Greeks having a word for this sickness: Pleonexia.
Tell me anon, does it feel good to chase for a trophy gf to prove to society that you can? That you are some genetic freak? No, it doesn't. I would know, I fell into this line of thinking, and it made me depressed. This idea of needing a gf is inherently destructive, and it stems from what I was talking about at the beginning of men attempting to apply this feminine idea of outwards social approval on themselves.