I'm not disagreeing with this. I am simply pointing out the stronger argument (in my opinion) that the entire thing is fake news used to manipulate blacks. There is no problem. There is no police issue. None, not at all.
By responding (only) with 'but you guys are mean to each other even more' you only play in to the hands of the leftist manipulator. Sure, what you say is true. But it is used by the leftist as 'see, they do not care about us' or other excuses. Do not play their game. Strike right at the heart of their argument - because they have none.
Remember, this is a math debate. Most racial issues are emotional - there is a point of view and you can argue it. But this cop thing is pure math.
As in: the police do a thing to group X at level A but but the police should only being doing that thing at level B, thus we know there is a problem.
The next time this comes up, if you ever talk to one of them, just ask them 'OK, what percentage of people are killed each year by the police who are black'. Then ask 'what percentage would you expect that to be'.
But do not rub it in their faces that they do not know. When they cannot answer, just ask 'why do you think that is, would you not expect that Anderson Cooper would lead with that if it was legit?'. They got no place to go. You do not even need to give them the truth. They are being manipulated.