>>379512806>Do you have sex with them before you lose all interest?
It usually turns into me being the one not interested in sex. It's straight up backwards from the stereotype of men begging for sex and women "having a headache", except I don't give them a bullshit excuse. I literally just tell them I don't feel like it. I've had multiple girls floored by that, it's something they've never experienced before - their entire lives, it's always been the case that when they want sex, they can just get it immediately because "guys always want to."
Lemme tell you something: guys worth their shit don't want to if you have the personality of a fucking lawn chair. They also don't want to if you're lazy or dirty, or if you don't keep yourself in shape. They also don't want to if you're an uncaring bitch, intentional or not. They might sleep with you a few times, but good luck keeping them for more than a week if all you have to offer is sex. Guys worth their shit aren't starved for sex, and they certainly won't stick around if you bring nothing else to the table.>>379513552>nowadays its like you just induce stress for no good reason
In a lot of cases, yeah, that's exactly the problem. With almost every girl I've ever dated, within weeks (at most), I just start thinking "why am I even doing this? What am I getting out of this?" when I have to hang out with them.