>>27000637Yeah, that's a good way to tear a ligament or a muscle or lose a limb from loss of circulation - it's also stupid in terms of the relationship, because if something does go wrong the dom will get fucked up emotionally over it, and if you tell them "well I was suppressing the pain past the limits of my body" they can't trust you to give them the cues they need to do bondage on you SAFELY.
And that is legitimately a reason to break up with you, simply because you're not taking into account their need to know where your limits are so they don't override them.
This is the thing that annoys me about news media who go "oh those bondage fetishists are weird and scary, shun them shun them" is that BDSM based relationships tend to be really amazingly emotionally mature, more so than a lot of much more vanilla relationships.
Of course the ones that aren't tend to be less BDSM and more "abusive relationships with the occasional bouts of very dull rope play."
/BDSM rant
